DisneyGirl
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Sooo. It seems like romantic roleplays are looked down upon in roleplaying communities. Now, I understand that it's just not some people's cup of tea and that it's annoying---especially if you're a 1x1 roleplayer---to be expected to include a romantic subplot in your story when you don't want to roleplay romance. I also totally understand that nobody wants to play the Prince Charming to someone's Mary Sue and all that, especially if the main plot is about surviving on an island or overcoming addiction and all your partner wants to do is have your characters make out every five minutes like there isn't a zombie apocalypse going on. I get that.
What I don't get is why romance roleplays are treated like a joke and a genre that only lonely teenage girls write about...and honestly, what's so even wrong with that?
In the same way that fantasy roleplayers like stories about witches and elves and magical quests, or sci fi roleplayers are into space ships and dystopian worlds, romance roleplayers love stories about falling in love and characters going through self-discovery along the way. Some people like magic spells and some like first kisses and some enjoy both!
I don't see anybody (at least not in any roleplaying communities) putting anyone down for liking fantasy/sci-fi roleplays, and that's awesome because a lot of fantasy/sci-fi lovers get put down in real life enough for loving their genres; but thanks to the internet, fantasy/sci fi fans can have a place where they are supported, where they belong.
Romance roleplayers, on the other hand, don't really seem to have the same support and it seems like it's because a lot of people assume that romance fans are single young women who are trying to fulfill their "relationship dreams" until they find their real life Prince Charming. Okay, yes. Roleplaying a fictional love story can get unhealthy fast. Some people will use romance roleplays to fill a void in their lives and all that because being single isn't fun for a lot of folks but for the most part? Romance roleplayers aren't trying to make up for their lack of a love life. Most romance roleplayers write romance because they actually just really like love stories in the same way you really like dragons and Marvel.
But you know what? I'll be honest here. There is a little bit of that "living in your own fantasy world" thing going on in romance roleplays because yes, playing a princess who falls in love with a prince and gets a happily ever after is really fun. Just like how playing a character going to Hogwarts or fighting evil robots is fun. At the end of the day, aren't all roleplayers living a fantasy to a certain degree? That's what makes roleplaying so awesome, you guys! You can pretty much be whoever and whatever you want living in whatever world or time you want. You can be a pirate in the future or a character from your favorite anime series or a damsel in distress in a regency setting. As long as a roleplayer is still in touch with the real world and their roleplay(s) adds joy to their life, please just let them enjoy whatever it is they love without making them feel bad about it, yeah?
What I don't get is why romance roleplays are treated like a joke and a genre that only lonely teenage girls write about...and honestly, what's so even wrong with that?
In the same way that fantasy roleplayers like stories about witches and elves and magical quests, or sci fi roleplayers are into space ships and dystopian worlds, romance roleplayers love stories about falling in love and characters going through self-discovery along the way. Some people like magic spells and some like first kisses and some enjoy both!
I don't see anybody (at least not in any roleplaying communities) putting anyone down for liking fantasy/sci-fi roleplays, and that's awesome because a lot of fantasy/sci-fi lovers get put down in real life enough for loving their genres; but thanks to the internet, fantasy/sci fi fans can have a place where they are supported, where they belong.
Romance roleplayers, on the other hand, don't really seem to have the same support and it seems like it's because a lot of people assume that romance fans are single young women who are trying to fulfill their "relationship dreams" until they find their real life Prince Charming. Okay, yes. Roleplaying a fictional love story can get unhealthy fast. Some people will use romance roleplays to fill a void in their lives and all that because being single isn't fun for a lot of folks but for the most part? Romance roleplayers aren't trying to make up for their lack of a love life. Most romance roleplayers write romance because they actually just really like love stories in the same way you really like dragons and Marvel.
But you know what? I'll be honest here. There is a little bit of that "living in your own fantasy world" thing going on in romance roleplays because yes, playing a princess who falls in love with a prince and gets a happily ever after is really fun. Just like how playing a character going to Hogwarts or fighting evil robots is fun. At the end of the day, aren't all roleplayers living a fantasy to a certain degree? That's what makes roleplaying so awesome, you guys! You can pretty much be whoever and whatever you want living in whatever world or time you want. You can be a pirate in the future or a character from your favorite anime series or a damsel in distress in a regency setting. As long as a roleplayer is still in touch with the real world and their roleplay(s) adds joy to their life, please just let them enjoy whatever it is they love without making them feel bad about it, yeah?