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Or they are like me and are a contrarian, so when they see "Romance Required", they immediately throw the computer across the room and cry: "YOU DO NOT CONTROL ME!!!!"
I actually snorted out loud at that part.
As a die hard platonic roleplayer I agree. Romance is like in all but a very tiny number of roleplays. Because even if it isn’t like the main focus it inevitably pops up in all other genres.
Even in ones where it doesn’t make a lot of sense like zombie apocalypses or roleplays about blood relatives. Not knocking those just illustrating that romance is like a mega popular genre that is obviously not looked down upon.
I’d say some elements of romance writing are critiqued but even then it’s with an air of “why can’t there be BETTER romance ?” Not why does romance exist at all.
Even as someone who has to be dragged kicking and screaming into romance I don’t hate the genre. Or think people who write in it are less than me.
I just don’t connect to those storylines as a writer. But because finding platonic 1x1 roleplayers is a bit like finding unicorn herds I tend to compromise and be like OK I’ll put your romance in but we have to add something that I like too so it’s fair.
And the amount of time I’ve had people spit in the face of that attempt at compromise has certainly left a bad taste in my mouth.
But it’s a bad taste about selfish people not romance.
So yeah I have no idea where the idea of romance being looked down on came from.
Maybe it’s from like another site or other parts of pop culture? I genuinely would be curious if some of the romance roleplayers could say where they are getting these thoughts from.