Sana
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Hey everyone, I'm in need of some advice! I'm in the middle of planning a rp with someone (on a different site) but I don't think we would work out too well as partners. To add some context, I tend to mostly double for fandoms but I can play up to 3 characters if preferred.
So, I had a convo that went something like this:
Person: Hey, I'm interested in [fandom] and my favorite characters are [name & name].
Me: Hi there! It would be an honor to play [name] for you, or maybe even both if we could play up to 3 characters?
Person: Playing 3 characters is fine.
Me: Oh awesome, ok then! In that case, could I ask you to play [name & name] for me please if you don't mind? And for the rest of the cast, should we split their roles between us or just have them be random NPCs that we both play whenever?
Also, would you like to exchange character sheets or just leave the details for once the rp begins? I'm down for either option!
Partner: My character is [lists a few details about their character, but said character seems to only work with one of the canons they want].
Me: Your OC is adorable! Will they be meeting both canons at the same time?
Person: I have another character that can work with [other character].
Me: *doesn't reply for two days and so they message again*
Person: I have pictures for one of my OC, but I'll find a picture for my other one later.
I don't know if I'm just being overly harsh or unreasonable without even giving them a chance, but they seem kinda...idk...self-absorbed? And it kinda really, REALLY irks me (probably more than it should) when people ignore my questions, and I have to ask it over again at some point.
I was planning on just sorta ghosting them, and while that would make me feel really bad, I have no idea how to let them down gently without hurting their feelings in any way, especially since we barely even got off the ground with plotting. Is there a way to reject them nicely or would ghosting be the best option? How would you go about it?
Thanks everyone! ; ~;
So, I had a convo that went something like this:
Person: Hey, I'm interested in [fandom] and my favorite characters are [name & name].
Me: Hi there! It would be an honor to play [name] for you, or maybe even both if we could play up to 3 characters?
Person: Playing 3 characters is fine.
Me: Oh awesome, ok then! In that case, could I ask you to play [name & name] for me please if you don't mind? And for the rest of the cast, should we split their roles between us or just have them be random NPCs that we both play whenever?
Also, would you like to exchange character sheets or just leave the details for once the rp begins? I'm down for either option!
Partner: My character is [lists a few details about their character, but said character seems to only work with one of the canons they want].
Me: Your OC is adorable! Will they be meeting both canons at the same time?
Person: I have another character that can work with [other character].
Me: *doesn't reply for two days and so they message again*
Person: I have pictures for one of my OC, but I'll find a picture for my other one later.
I don't know if I'm just being overly harsh or unreasonable without even giving them a chance, but they seem kinda...idk...self-absorbed? And it kinda really, REALLY irks me (probably more than it should) when people ignore my questions, and I have to ask it over again at some point.
I was planning on just sorta ghosting them, and while that would make me feel really bad, I have no idea how to let them down gently without hurting their feelings in any way, especially since we barely even got off the ground with plotting. Is there a way to reject them nicely or would ghosting be the best option? How would you go about it?
Thanks everyone! ; ~;