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After learning about transgenderism, the Baby X experiment, and Margaret Mead’s studies of the Chambri people, I’ve come to the conclusion that gender is stupid as fuck.
Certain social constructs have important uses. Like time. Those should stick around. Gender isn’t one of them.
Sex makes sense. Sex is biological. If you compete in a sport, you should compete with your same sex. If you want to reproduce, it (currently) takes opposite sexes. But gender? What does your penis/vagina have to do with who you are as a person, the things you’re good at, the activities you enjoy? What should your genitalia have to do with your position in society?
I’m a girl, and growing up not being good at being “girly” FUCKING sucked. I feel much more comfortable as “one of the guys”. Online, I tend to keep my gender hidden and feel much better when referred to as “he” or “they” than “she”. My dad sometimes gets his pronouns in English mixed up (it’s his second language) and calls me “he” and it feels so weirdly good. But I’m not non-binary or trans because, first and most importantly, I don’t have gender dysphoria (maaaaybe a tiny bit of social dysphoria, but that’s about it), and second, I think gender in and of itself is fucking stupid and unnecessary. The only reason people suffer from gender dysphoria is because of there being gender identity in the first place. What the fuck should having a penis or a vagina have to do with your identity as a person????
When considered a girl, I feel like there are preconcieved notions, assumptions, and expectations of me and that’s what I hate. Especially since I don’t feel I fit those notions, assumptions, and expectations. That’s why I would say I have a tiny bit of social dysphoria. In general, for me personally, I’ve just done away with gender entirely. I think it’s stupid and imaginary. Like climate change not happening, flat earth, or Legend of Korra being good. It’s a thing lots of people believe in, but I have decided to no longer do so.
In conclusion: gender doesn’t exist. Thanks for coming to my RedTalk (it’s like a TedTalk but filled with anger and not very coherent.)
Certain social constructs have important uses. Like time. Those should stick around. Gender isn’t one of them.
Sex makes sense. Sex is biological. If you compete in a sport, you should compete with your same sex. If you want to reproduce, it (currently) takes opposite sexes. But gender? What does your penis/vagina have to do with who you are as a person, the things you’re good at, the activities you enjoy? What should your genitalia have to do with your position in society?
I’m a girl, and growing up not being good at being “girly” FUCKING sucked. I feel much more comfortable as “one of the guys”. Online, I tend to keep my gender hidden and feel much better when referred to as “he” or “they” than “she”. My dad sometimes gets his pronouns in English mixed up (it’s his second language) and calls me “he” and it feels so weirdly good. But I’m not non-binary or trans because, first and most importantly, I don’t have gender dysphoria (maaaaybe a tiny bit of social dysphoria, but that’s about it), and second, I think gender in and of itself is fucking stupid and unnecessary. The only reason people suffer from gender dysphoria is because of there being gender identity in the first place. What the fuck should having a penis or a vagina have to do with your identity as a person????
When considered a girl, I feel like there are preconcieved notions, assumptions, and expectations of me and that’s what I hate. Especially since I don’t feel I fit those notions, assumptions, and expectations. That’s why I would say I have a tiny bit of social dysphoria. In general, for me personally, I’ve just done away with gender entirely. I think it’s stupid and imaginary. Like climate change not happening, flat earth, or Legend of Korra being good. It’s a thing lots of people believe in, but I have decided to no longer do so.
In conclusion: gender doesn’t exist. Thanks for coming to my RedTalk (it’s like a TedTalk but filled with anger and not very coherent.)