Deredere
He/they. I can tell you your aesthetic
I have two writing issues. Telling and not showing and trying to portray a straight cis male that still is feminine. I want to have more detail in my writing, but it feels so difficult and worry that if I spend to long trying to think of something, they'll leave and ghost me, but I don't want to rush on details. My second is trying to make one of my characters still straight, but still likes doing girly things. I don't want the camp straight trope on him either. I want to treat him like a real person.