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And secondly, kinda related, what makes you lose interest in a roleplay?
It happens to everyone. You're on board for a roleplay, and then maybe life happens. Maybe something else. Maybe you're not as compatible with someone as you thought, or maybe they just bring in something way the hell out of left field. So what makes you lose interest (whether you ghost or not) and how do you recognize that it's happening?
For me, a few things make me lose interest.
1. Life. This is the biggest one that I bet just about everyone can understand. Life LOVES throwing curveballs at people! For example, last August I found out my husband cheated on me, and I had to end my marriage. That was a hella curveball, and for a month or so I just wasn't in the mood to roleplay. But I bounced back, obviously.
2. No OOC chatter. I prefer talking OOC and making friends. I get that some people don't, but for me, if I can connect with my partner then the RP has a better chance of lasting.
3. Discord RPs. Dunno why, I just never get into them.
4. Short and/or half assed responses. Generally, I put my all into a response and I can tell when someone didn't even try. It irritates the hell out of me.
5. This is a big one: BEING A SELFISH PRICK. If we're doubling, I expect you to place equal attention to both of your characters. I also expect you to NOT just focus on your female, or make her the center of the roleplay. Had this happen on here, and it both pissed me off and made me sad because the person was a great writer. Just selfish as hell and killed any chances of us RPing in the future.
I'm sure there are other things, but those are the ones I thought of now.
As far as how I recognize I'm losing interest...
1. Making excuses to not reply. "I've been busy" "work's been crazy" etc. And really, the only person who knows that these are excuses is me, and yes, it makes me feel a little bad.
2. Kinda goes along with #1, but ghosting. I'll admit that I do this, sometimes on purpose and sometimes not. It's a big controversy on this site (and elsewhere, I'd assume) but I try to be honest about it.
3. Not opening the message after like, a week. I don't always open a message right when I get it, because then I might forget about it. But if a week or so goes by and I haven't opened it yet, I might be losing interest.
4. Searching for new RPs. I have a bad habit of getting into too many at once, especially with groups.
It happens to everyone. You're on board for a roleplay, and then maybe life happens. Maybe something else. Maybe you're not as compatible with someone as you thought, or maybe they just bring in something way the hell out of left field. So what makes you lose interest (whether you ghost or not) and how do you recognize that it's happening?
For me, a few things make me lose interest.
1. Life. This is the biggest one that I bet just about everyone can understand. Life LOVES throwing curveballs at people! For example, last August I found out my husband cheated on me, and I had to end my marriage. That was a hella curveball, and for a month or so I just wasn't in the mood to roleplay. But I bounced back, obviously.
2. No OOC chatter. I prefer talking OOC and making friends. I get that some people don't, but for me, if I can connect with my partner then the RP has a better chance of lasting.
3. Discord RPs. Dunno why, I just never get into them.
4. Short and/or half assed responses. Generally, I put my all into a response and I can tell when someone didn't even try. It irritates the hell out of me.
5. This is a big one: BEING A SELFISH PRICK. If we're doubling, I expect you to place equal attention to both of your characters. I also expect you to NOT just focus on your female, or make her the center of the roleplay. Had this happen on here, and it both pissed me off and made me sad because the person was a great writer. Just selfish as hell and killed any chances of us RPing in the future.
I'm sure there are other things, but those are the ones I thought of now.
As far as how I recognize I'm losing interest...
1. Making excuses to not reply. "I've been busy" "work's been crazy" etc. And really, the only person who knows that these are excuses is me, and yes, it makes me feel a little bad.
2. Kinda goes along with #1, but ghosting. I'll admit that I do this, sometimes on purpose and sometimes not. It's a big controversy on this site (and elsewhere, I'd assume) but I try to be honest about it.
3. Not opening the message after like, a week. I don't always open a message right when I get it, because then I might forget about it. But if a week or so goes by and I haven't opened it yet, I might be losing interest.
4. Searching for new RPs. I have a bad habit of getting into too many at once, especially with groups.