[3] Ask her how she managed to wait all that time next to our bed - would have been quite a coincident if she dropped in right the moment when we woke up. Maybe she'll tell us about shift changes with the boy and we get to know his name that way. Maybe she'll tell us something else - we'll see. But I think it'd be good to make her talk about the happenings without showing that we don't have any kind of clue what happened.