No I don’t mean a pre-made plot. I mean when I’m doing 90% of the work while the other person sits on their butt. Then they get pissed off when I don’t want them to completely alter the roleplay because they have a random idea in the middle plot.I can understand to an extent of what you're saying.
I think if someone comes to you asking for a specific rp, I dont think someone should get snippy that they dont exactly want the plot you've made. unless it's a really specific plot. but if its based off of pairings and you made a plot for it, I dont think getting snippy would be the right thing if they dont like it.
I dont like when someone will come to me and try to make a plot with me, but they end up taking over the whole thing. it should be a 50/50 teamwork. and not include passive aggressiveness.
Like for an example I had a roleplay where the person specifically told me I had to do the world building and plotting for the roleplay. They literally only wanted to make their character and that’s it. Everything else was my responsibility.
They proceeded to get mad when they Character they made didn’t fit into the plot I came up with.
And I was willing to change things I just told them I wouldn’t be able to do all the changes by myself. I would need help.