Kiyoko Tomoe
The Donut Goddess
But in trouble, hurt, and conflict do you truly get to know a person.
Not the way you're doing it, White... Pain and suffering is meant to be endured together, not forced upon one another. You don't harm the other willingly to learn about them; all you do by intentionally hurting one another is distance yourselves until there's nothing left of what you used to be. Trouble, hurt and conflict only make you learn about one another when you receive it together, endure it together, and understand how the pain affects the other. Creating the pain means you won't truly understand it. You'll know what that pain is, but not how it truly feels to the person whom receives it.