So... I don't know what exactly I want to bring up in this thread. Some sort of archetypes versus originality thing, perhaps. Let's see if I can describe my concern correctly.
I see the prevailing majority of people sticking to and choosing from quite typical... no, even stereotypical characters. If there's a giant man, he's a big softie, and a cuddle bear to his friends, not to mention low intelligence. If there's a gay bottom, he's always a feminine, clumsy, cure, always-blushing character. If there's a mage, she's always fragile and thin. Most women are big-eyed bimbos with DD-sized breast. The personalities are easily guessable as well. And, hey, having a type to play; a "perfect self" to represent, or just a recognisable character to roleplay is a thing that deserves recognition.
But! There are also certain "gems", a very unusual characters, that do not follow a typical ark, have typical looks, or typical personalities. And one would think they're the most popular, as they are what they are - unique gems among hundreds of cookie-cutter chars. But thing is, they're not. Those that do not follow the common frame, are often ignored, and it breaks my heart to find a profile of a unique character, and ask the player if they're willing to come up with something only to hear they're no roleplaying, as for years no one had shown any interest in their char... and this happens much more often than one can imagine.
My main character is a rather aggressive and sarcastic guy, who doesn't really show the better part, because he might just lack it. This goes from me liking to RP bloodline, and his comes from efreeti spirits, which I want to include into his nature. But people are scared of this! The number of times I got a reply "I want the other character to be nice" astonishes me! Why? Don't you want dynamics? Development?
Another thing in this box - the moment you hint your character doesn't find a female co-player attractive, they just disappear saying "Well, it seems we don't click" (I never met the same with male characters, but assume this exists as well). Again, why? Is your character so shallow that looks is the only thing you're confident at? And I just crushed your confidence for not liking busty lollipops? Are you only looking for those who would kiss your feet and praise your extravagant (not) beauty? How about someone who will learn to love you for your personality, intelligence, emotions, and overcome the initial disinterest?
So the question is... would you prefer to play as/with an archetype you and everyone around knows and make things easier, or something more complex/unusual/unique? And why do you think so many shun from thought-out, complex characters?
I see the prevailing majority of people sticking to and choosing from quite typical... no, even stereotypical characters. If there's a giant man, he's a big softie, and a cuddle bear to his friends, not to mention low intelligence. If there's a gay bottom, he's always a feminine, clumsy, cure, always-blushing character. If there's a mage, she's always fragile and thin. Most women are big-eyed bimbos with DD-sized breast. The personalities are easily guessable as well. And, hey, having a type to play; a "perfect self" to represent, or just a recognisable character to roleplay is a thing that deserves recognition.
But! There are also certain "gems", a very unusual characters, that do not follow a typical ark, have typical looks, or typical personalities. And one would think they're the most popular, as they are what they are - unique gems among hundreds of cookie-cutter chars. But thing is, they're not. Those that do not follow the common frame, are often ignored, and it breaks my heart to find a profile of a unique character, and ask the player if they're willing to come up with something only to hear they're no roleplaying, as for years no one had shown any interest in their char... and this happens much more often than one can imagine.
Latest instance of my own, I uploaded this ad to another website, and was approached by someone who, based by the "MEN" line, assumed I would be playing a feminine character, a younger one, and a submissive romantic.
"Dude." - I said. - "Have you even read my character's profile? He's a dominant, mid-30s, gay top who isn't overly sexually or romantically active."
"Oh." - He replied. - "I just assume, since you're looking for manly men, you want to play him as a sumbissive 13-year-old boy..." (which is sick, btw, in my personal opinion)
And this happens an awful lot.
"Dude." - I said. - "Have you even read my character's profile? He's a dominant, mid-30s, gay top who isn't overly sexually or romantically active."
"Oh." - He replied. - "I just assume, since you're looking for manly men, you want to play him as a sumbissive 13-year-old boy..." (which is sick, btw, in my personal opinion)
And this happens an awful lot.
My main character is a rather aggressive and sarcastic guy, who doesn't really show the better part, because he might just lack it. This goes from me liking to RP bloodline, and his comes from efreeti spirits, which I want to include into his nature. But people are scared of this! The number of times I got a reply "I want the other character to be nice" astonishes me! Why? Don't you want dynamics? Development?
Another thing in this box - the moment you hint your character doesn't find a female co-player attractive, they just disappear saying "Well, it seems we don't click" (I never met the same with male characters, but assume this exists as well). Again, why? Is your character so shallow that looks is the only thing you're confident at? And I just crushed your confidence for not liking busty lollipops? Are you only looking for those who would kiss your feet and praise your extravagant (not) beauty? How about someone who will learn to love you for your personality, intelligence, emotions, and overcome the initial disinterest?
So the question is... would you prefer to play as/with an archetype you and everyone around knows and make things easier, or something more complex/unusual/unique? And why do you think so many shun from thought-out, complex characters?