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EDIT : 9:01 am to be a little clearer and less ranty.
So I was doing a Discord roleplay with someone from a different site, we'll call him Pegasus. The guy messages me first with an OC that he wants to play in an original world of mine. I'm happy to do it and give him my discord handle and set up of a server for the roleplay.
He seems kind of surprised that I bothered to make a whole server as it's just a 1x1 and I tell him that I like to be organized. He seems fine with it and we get to talking about the plot and characters. I go through my own dragon plots (it was a dragon roleplay) and he says he wants to do something different.
I'm fine with changing things up and even work on a character for the roleplay that I flesh out from a previous idea. I explain the character and such and everything seems to be going well.
Well then I try to move onto preferences for the roleplay ( like how often he wants to post, what kind of character sheet he wants to use, etc.) And he seems a little put off. He keeps saying something like "You're excited to get started / Do you want to get started?" When I'm like asking him basic follow up questions.
Like no dude why would I be wanting to start when I'm still asking you questions about the roleplay? So eventually I even tell him - hey it seems like your maybe used to doing the whole "make a character and jump in" thing and that's not really my style. I like to ask for expectations so we're both on the same page.
Well you would think I just spat in the man's face and called his mother a four letter word. He goes on this tear that I've been shutting him out and focusing only on my own character and trying to force him to do world building. While simultaneously saying that he is fine with world building and how dare I make assumptions. Like dude I was explaining a character I made specifically for your character to interact with. And you told me all about your character as literally your first message to me. And I'm not forcing him to anything I'm just asking him questions.
But then he goes on like how I'm just being unreasonable and acting like he has all this free time and being unreasonable to him. I apologise say I'm sorry if this is how I came across. Maybe he could give me a schedule so I can only contact him when he's online and work on other roleplays when he's not.
Well he put paid to that. Told me he was leaving because I couldn't be cooperative and it was a shame because I had a nice idea. I promptly blocked him on the site he found me on.
tl:dr and question
So the short version is I had someone get super offended at me on discord and I was wondering if anyone had tips for leaving a roleplay when your partner has already proven to be the sort to take any slight super personally.
So I was doing a Discord roleplay with someone from a different site, we'll call him Pegasus. The guy messages me first with an OC that he wants to play in an original world of mine. I'm happy to do it and give him my discord handle and set up of a server for the roleplay.
He seems kind of surprised that I bothered to make a whole server as it's just a 1x1 and I tell him that I like to be organized. He seems fine with it and we get to talking about the plot and characters. I go through my own dragon plots (it was a dragon roleplay) and he says he wants to do something different.
I'm fine with changing things up and even work on a character for the roleplay that I flesh out from a previous idea. I explain the character and such and everything seems to be going well.
Well then I try to move onto preferences for the roleplay ( like how often he wants to post, what kind of character sheet he wants to use, etc.) And he seems a little put off. He keeps saying something like "You're excited to get started / Do you want to get started?" When I'm like asking him basic follow up questions.
Like no dude why would I be wanting to start when I'm still asking you questions about the roleplay? So eventually I even tell him - hey it seems like your maybe used to doing the whole "make a character and jump in" thing and that's not really my style. I like to ask for expectations so we're both on the same page.
Well you would think I just spat in the man's face and called his mother a four letter word. He goes on this tear that I've been shutting him out and focusing only on my own character and trying to force him to do world building. While simultaneously saying that he is fine with world building and how dare I make assumptions. Like dude I was explaining a character I made specifically for your character to interact with. And you told me all about your character as literally your first message to me. And I'm not forcing him to anything I'm just asking him questions.
But then he goes on like how I'm just being unreasonable and acting like he has all this free time and being unreasonable to him. I apologise say I'm sorry if this is how I came across. Maybe he could give me a schedule so I can only contact him when he's online and work on other roleplays when he's not.
Well he put paid to that. Told me he was leaving because I couldn't be cooperative and it was a shame because I had a nice idea. I promptly blocked him on the site he found me on.
tl:dr and question
So the short version is I had someone get super offended at me on discord and I was wondering if anyone had tips for leaving a roleplay when your partner has already proven to be the sort to take any slight super personally.
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