Victorian
I Am All Of Me
Okay so this seems much more appropriate yeah!
So, I'll give a little context about this: I do have a friend who did not even offer me to talk about something bothering them. I asked what was wrong, ya know taking initiative, and I was removed without question. So, I'd like to know everyone's stance on this kind of thing; the big question. Just to get some differing opinions! (I'm autistic so I kinda always see things outside the box)
How do you feel about blocking before talking? Do you think you and your friend should try and talk it out before a block? Or do you think a block is the solid answer to avoid confrontation? Do you think it's wrong to block without talking? A pretty heavy debate but I'm really curious to learn everyone's viewpoints on this. It might just give me some perspectives I could really use here!
My personal stance?
I think blocking is what you should do after you've already tried talking. If you've given your friend a couple of chances and they clearly don't care about doing the right thing at all or even working with you to see how you two can resolve things; I think blocking is ideal then. I only think this because I do believe in honest mistakes so I think trying to talk first at least gives that opportunity to see if it's an honest mistake, it just shouldn't become an endless cycle. More of an "okay you want me to tell you so this doesn't happen again" kind of thing.
So, I'll give a little context about this: I do have a friend who did not even offer me to talk about something bothering them. I asked what was wrong, ya know taking initiative, and I was removed without question. So, I'd like to know everyone's stance on this kind of thing; the big question. Just to get some differing opinions! (I'm autistic so I kinda always see things outside the box)
How do you feel about blocking before talking? Do you think you and your friend should try and talk it out before a block? Or do you think a block is the solid answer to avoid confrontation? Do you think it's wrong to block without talking? A pretty heavy debate but I'm really curious to learn everyone's viewpoints on this. It might just give me some perspectives I could really use here!
My personal stance?
I think blocking is what you should do after you've already tried talking. If you've given your friend a couple of chances and they clearly don't care about doing the right thing at all or even working with you to see how you two can resolve things; I think blocking is ideal then. I only think this because I do believe in honest mistakes so I think trying to talk first at least gives that opportunity to see if it's an honest mistake, it just shouldn't become an endless cycle. More of an "okay you want me to tell you so this doesn't happen again" kind of thing.