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Chanel's question was fair, but the answer wasn't a simple 'yes' or 'no'. Collin knew that he wasn't ugly. He understood that being white, blonde, blue eyed, tall, and physically fit meant that he fit the standards of what was conventionally considered to be attractive in their society. If he was living in a different body and was looking at someone else living in his own, he would probably be able to admit that they were more attractive than he thought of himself as being. Most people were their own worst critics and Collin wasn't immune to that, but he also felt like being "hot" entailed a lot more than just physical appearance. To him, being attractive was strongly related to one's confidence level, which he knew he lacked in. While he wasn't some loser whimpering in the corner of a room in any social situation, it simply wasn't in his nature to put himself out there or attempt to make any statements. He understood that being "hot" was typically merely linked to physical appearance, and even when linking the word to other people, Collin usually just stuck with that definition, but it was harder to do so when applying it to himself. He felt inclined to be more critical and make it more complicated than it needed to be.
"Doesn't matter if I think I'm 'hot' or not," Collin returned. "It's what's on the inside that counts," he said, purposely being cliche as a mechanism to avoid having to be serious about this conversation. "Besides, girls aren't all rainbows and butterflies either. If guys like anything that's shiny, then girls like anything with a dollar sign next to it." Collin had only recently become aware of just how real it was for someone to want someone for their money. He had been introduced to the concept when Cara had attempted to convince him that their former nanny turned stepmother was a gold digger, but he hadn't believed it at the time. He had never had a reason to really think that someone could be so desperate for money or material items as to pretend to love someone in exchange for that. He understood the concept of women selling their bodies for money, because that made sense - the woman got money, the man got sex, and it ended after that. To be in a relationship with someone and to do everything that came along with it, all while pretending to truly care for the person, just for financial comfort, seemed absurd. He didn't understand the realities of the world and how uncomfortable financial insecurity could be at the time. He didn't understand the impact of loan burden, or rent burden, or social determinants of health. He had the privilege of never having to worry about money. Prestige, on the other hand, was a different story. He was aware of how obsessed people were with having the highest brand labels, or being associated with the most successful people. He had been used more than once throughout his childhood by people's parents who forced their kids to hang out with Collin, even when they didn't actually like him or want him around, in hopes of landing some business deal or stock advice from his dad.
After starting college, moving out, and in turn, redefining his friendship circle as one that nearly solely included broke college kids (who primarily came from middle class households), he realized just how badly people wanted to be financially secure. It was undoubtedly eye opening but he appreciated being able to grow. He didn't appreciate girls pretending to like him until the day after the Drake concert that he had bought floor seats for them to attend, or being asked to pay for a table at a club just to be ignored all night, and to an extent, it had led him to feel more uncertain about any relationship he considered pursuing. "But that's good to know that you think I'm hot. Not a surprise, but a nice ego boost nonetheless," he claimed with a smirk, sitting down on the couch. He was sure that Cara would mind them smoking in the apartment, but he also didn't really care, and blaming Brooklyn was always an easy option since Cara disliked her anyway and was usually ready to believe that she caused problems.
It was virtually a requirement that Chanel roll her eyes at Collin's lackluster response. "First of all, I was speaking generally," she said in reference to his latter most comment. "Second of all," she began. After Collin took a seat behind her on the couch, she swung her body back and fell onto his lap. "You're not my type. I prefer my guys with a lot less...whatever this is." She nodded towards Collin, hinting at the unbuttoned shirt he was wearing. It was obvious as soon as she saw him that he couldn't have picked out such an outfit because when she approached him upon arrival he was certainly not high or drunk enough for that to be a logical choice. "You're also too symmetrical. A little asymmetry keeps things interesting, you know? Especially when we're talking about someone as straight laced and..." She turned her towards him and eyed him up and down. It wasn't in the typical suggestive manner, but rather a demonstration that she was trying to find a kinder word to describe what she was seeing which was your archetypal rich WASP. She wouldn't call him boring, but the way she pulled her lips in as her mind came up short on nicer synonyms probably told what she was thinking. "precedented as you are. I mean, your story's been written a million times, so you gotta have a little something going for you, you know? And it's not to say you're boring--not really--but everyone knows Goldilocks and the Three Bears, and there's only so many ways you can tell that story." Chanel lifted her arms above her head, pulling her feet in the opposite direction as she stretched. Interestingly enough, while she could feel the warmth of the alcohol in her stomach, this was some indication that she was on the verge of needing to be put to bed. This was just another example of Chanel believing all boundaries were permeable. Plus, she was naturally a flirt. She wasn't trying to be flirty, and instead was just being playful, but her form of playfulness was different with guys, which unfortunately led to a lot of the same explanation that she was, in fact, not scoping out anything intimate. "All I'm saying is that if you're going to be as archetypal of a white man as possible, the least you could do is have some fun with it. Like your sister. I'm sure if you had done coke with them, you'd probably have another girl on your lap right now." Chanel turned to give him a playful wink. "I mean, I'm just saying you can't be a typical chicken nugget with a lot of money and then be mad when people are really only after the happy meal. You gotta have some seasoning, come with a toy, or something. Being 21 and not wanting to turn up is the opposite of all of that. But I have faith in you, so I know there's something. So, like, what's the craziest thing you've ever done that no would ever guess? Or what's the crazier thing you would ever do?"
"Doesn't matter if I think I'm 'hot' or not," Collin returned. "It's what's on the inside that counts," he said, purposely being cliche as a mechanism to avoid having to be serious about this conversation. "Besides, girls aren't all rainbows and butterflies either. If guys like anything that's shiny, then girls like anything with a dollar sign next to it." Collin had only recently become aware of just how real it was for someone to want someone for their money. He had been introduced to the concept when Cara had attempted to convince him that their former nanny turned stepmother was a gold digger, but he hadn't believed it at the time. He had never had a reason to really think that someone could be so desperate for money or material items as to pretend to love someone in exchange for that. He understood the concept of women selling their bodies for money, because that made sense - the woman got money, the man got sex, and it ended after that. To be in a relationship with someone and to do everything that came along with it, all while pretending to truly care for the person, just for financial comfort, seemed absurd. He didn't understand the realities of the world and how uncomfortable financial insecurity could be at the time. He didn't understand the impact of loan burden, or rent burden, or social determinants of health. He had the privilege of never having to worry about money. Prestige, on the other hand, was a different story. He was aware of how obsessed people were with having the highest brand labels, or being associated with the most successful people. He had been used more than once throughout his childhood by people's parents who forced their kids to hang out with Collin, even when they didn't actually like him or want him around, in hopes of landing some business deal or stock advice from his dad.
After starting college, moving out, and in turn, redefining his friendship circle as one that nearly solely included broke college kids (who primarily came from middle class households), he realized just how badly people wanted to be financially secure. It was undoubtedly eye opening but he appreciated being able to grow. He didn't appreciate girls pretending to like him until the day after the Drake concert that he had bought floor seats for them to attend, or being asked to pay for a table at a club just to be ignored all night, and to an extent, it had led him to feel more uncertain about any relationship he considered pursuing. "But that's good to know that you think I'm hot. Not a surprise, but a nice ego boost nonetheless," he claimed with a smirk, sitting down on the couch. He was sure that Cara would mind them smoking in the apartment, but he also didn't really care, and blaming Brooklyn was always an easy option since Cara disliked her anyway and was usually ready to believe that she caused problems.
It was virtually a requirement that Chanel roll her eyes at Collin's lackluster response. "First of all, I was speaking generally," she said in reference to his latter most comment. "Second of all," she began. After Collin took a seat behind her on the couch, she swung her body back and fell onto his lap. "You're not my type. I prefer my guys with a lot less...whatever this is." She nodded towards Collin, hinting at the unbuttoned shirt he was wearing. It was obvious as soon as she saw him that he couldn't have picked out such an outfit because when she approached him upon arrival he was certainly not high or drunk enough for that to be a logical choice. "You're also too symmetrical. A little asymmetry keeps things interesting, you know? Especially when we're talking about someone as straight laced and..." She turned her towards him and eyed him up and down. It wasn't in the typical suggestive manner, but rather a demonstration that she was trying to find a kinder word to describe what she was seeing which was your archetypal rich WASP. She wouldn't call him boring, but the way she pulled her lips in as her mind came up short on nicer synonyms probably told what she was thinking. "precedented as you are. I mean, your story's been written a million times, so you gotta have a little something going for you, you know? And it's not to say you're boring--not really--but everyone knows Goldilocks and the Three Bears, and there's only so many ways you can tell that story." Chanel lifted her arms above her head, pulling her feet in the opposite direction as she stretched. Interestingly enough, while she could feel the warmth of the alcohol in her stomach, this was some indication that she was on the verge of needing to be put to bed. This was just another example of Chanel believing all boundaries were permeable. Plus, she was naturally a flirt. She wasn't trying to be flirty, and instead was just being playful, but her form of playfulness was different with guys, which unfortunately led to a lot of the same explanation that she was, in fact, not scoping out anything intimate. "All I'm saying is that if you're going to be as archetypal of a white man as possible, the least you could do is have some fun with it. Like your sister. I'm sure if you had done coke with them, you'd probably have another girl on your lap right now." Chanel turned to give him a playful wink. "I mean, I'm just saying you can't be a typical chicken nugget with a lot of money and then be mad when people are really only after the happy meal. You gotta have some seasoning, come with a toy, or something. Being 21 and not wanting to turn up is the opposite of all of that. But I have faith in you, so I know there's something. So, like, what's the craziest thing you've ever done that no would ever guess? Or what's the crazier thing you would ever do?"