Likes and dislikes do factor into behavior, but they are not the same thing as a personality characteristic. Preferences are often derived from what people are comfortable around, and that level of comfort factors into what aspect of a person's personality is likely to manifest itself in a given scenario. With that said however, how a person behaves reflects their personality, not their preferences. I like the color purple. That does not make me different in any meaningful way from a person who likes the color red. Likes and dislikes can be transitory anyways.Swindle said:I'd still establish that preferences are apart of your personality though. You can end up doing things that you don't like depending on the circumstances, sure, but that doesn't change anything about what you do/don't like; it just means you're adapting to the situation based essentially on decisions that are themselves based on preferences to end up with a situation that you will still like overall. Which I would say is in itself a matter of preference, as they're making a choice to create an outcome they would like as compared to the opposite.
Regarding your examples, it's easy to see it this way.
Joe prefers to interact with cats, whereas Suzy would rather watch them as if she were some urban safari.
Suzy prefers to take charge of the situation, Joe essentially prefers to do what other people prefer.
So, sure, if you just say something as broad as "people like cats," you won't get much out of it. But if you were to say "Joe likes cats and also enjoys petting them/Suzy likes cats but would rather watch them do their own thing" then it makes more sense when you describe it as a matter of preference.
Plus, being someone who has lived with close-minded people, preferences very well do determine (and can often be used to predict) how someone will act in any given scenario. I'd even argue that preferences are very well the reason why people are so easy to predict and manipulate depending on how aware of it they are. Also, with the definition you gave for preferences, where a character will focus their attention is also apart of behavior, is it not?
If we take personality to mean a set of qualities/characteristics that make up a person, then preferences are also apart of those characteristics, as likes/dislikes are a major factor in what you do and do not do.
Saying that someone "prefers to do X behavior" doesn't necessarily mean that they will do it. It will vary depending on a person's disposition, and sometimes even upon their current mood. Why even bother to write all of that out when you could simply cite their personality traits of being "friendly" and "solemn"? It's shorter and encompasses a wider range of scenarios. The word "solemn" not only suggests that Suzy tends to keep a distance from animals, but it also suggests that she has a serious nature and will approach most situations with an air of quiet dignity. It's generally better to keep things short and to the point, while still expressing as much information as possible.
Preferences are complicated. You might like dogs, but not all dogs. You might like green but wear blue more often. Listing out all preferences that a person has requires a lot of description and a lot of text. I find it to be a waste of time to go very deep into describing likes and dislikes because much of that information will not end up being used anyways. I'm not saying that likes and dislikes are never important, and I am also not saying that they never affect what you chose to do, but personality traits carry more weight to how a person behaves.
For instance, I like to dance and I love meeting new people. I would like to go straight up to someone and ask them to dance with me. Theoretically that might suggest that at a dance I'm very sociable. However, I'm actually timid and overly analytical. In this scenario, I might like to ask someone to dance, but I won't do it because my personality causes me to become anxious, even when around something I like. If I were making a character sheet for myself, I could list out all of the things that I like to do but that I hesitate to try, or I could simply say that I have a tendency to overthink situations and make myself nervous. That would cover dancing, raising my hand in class, inviting people to hang out with me, etc. I enjoy doing all of those things, but what I actually end up doing is impacted greatly by my personality. You can very easily love something and be terrified by it at the same time. That's a result of personality.
Also, I would argue that the fact that someone is close minded is more of a predicting factor than their particular likes and dislikes. As a result of their close mindedness, you know that they will gravitate towards the things that they like, and shun things that they dislike. In contrast, you can't be entirely sure with someone who is open minded. Perhaps the open minded person is adventurous and will try out things that they don't like, or perhaps they still gravitate towards what they like but still don't resist novelty. Their particular personality will determine that. As I said before, preferences will sometimes (though not always) indicate when a person is likely to exhibit a particular personality trait, but the personality trait exhibited is more representative of who the person truly is.
You can, of course, list every behavior which accompanies each preference that a character has. I find it much more practical to focus on personality traits, since those create a much more comprehensive view of a person's identity. Preferences really are a broad thing, and expanding upon their preferences is a complicated way of describing how their particular personality traits are expressed in a given scenario.
Edit: To summarize, liking or disliking something won't necessarily indicate how a character will behave towards it. Preferring to act a certain way doesn't mean that a character will do so. Perhaps a character acts a certain way, but doesn't like that they act that way. Describing their behavior as "Character A prefers to do X" is not applicable to most situations. It is therefore much simpler to say that a character exhibits certain personality traits.
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