Realistic or Modern 𝐬𝙚𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐜𝐚𝐟𝙚 -- 𝘤𝘴

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  im so tired of love songs

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  
  

  oh minjoon

  
  
  

  the basics.

  
  

  
  
  

  name

  
  

  Oh Minjoon

  
  
  

  nick name

  
  

  His brothers call him 'Aegi-Min' (Aegi means 'Baby' in Korean)

  
  
  

  handle

  
  

  0rph3us

  
  
  

  age

  
  

  18

  
  
  

  Gender

  
  

  Male

  
  
  

  Sexuality

  
  

  Demisexual

  
  
  

  Date of Birth

  
  

  25th August

  
  
  

  Place of Birth

  
  

  Seoul, South Korea

  
  
  

  Speaks

  
  

  Korean and English

  
  
  

  face claim

  
  

  Ha Hyunsang

  
  

  
  

  
  
  

  Tired of love songs, tired of love

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  
  

  visage.

  
  

  
  
  

  eyes

  
  

  Velvet black coloured iris, monolid-shaped eyes and slight aegyo sal

  
  
  

  hair

  
  

  Black, thick hair with a scissor cut hairstyle

  
  
  

  Height

  
  

  183 cms

  
  
  

  Weight

  
  

  67 Kilos

  
  
  

  Skin tone

  
  

  Fair to olive skin tone. In winter, his skin tone is more on the fair to very fair scale. However, during summer, he naturally tans to an olive shade. Although, he is still considered very pale next to his parents and brothers.

  
  
  

  Clothing style

  
  

  Min-Joon doesn't believe in dressing to impress or spending money on clothes when he can get them free through hand downs from his older brothers. If anything, he dresses for comfort and convenience. His favourite outfit generally consists of his favourite pair of blue denim jeans, a plain shirt and a jumper or jacket that was probably handed down to him by his brothers and therefore a size or larger than him.

  
  
  

  Body type

  
  

  Ectomorph - long and lean. He has a shocking metabolism and no matter what he eats, he can never seem to turn it into fat. He's often seen as one of those people who are 'blessed' because they can eat what they want and not gain weight

  
  
  

  Tattoos/piercing

  
  

  Left earlobe. Will commonly have a silver round stud earring in. His older brothers brought him to get it done for his sixteenth birthday without their parents knowing about it. Well, they sure had a surprise when they came home to find their youngest son with some new bling-bling.

  
  
  

  Other body mods

  
  

  He has braces to help straighten his teeth. As a child, he was always self-conscious about his teeth. However, due to his family’s financial situation, they were never able to pay for braces. Once he turned fifteen, Min-Joon had his first full-time job. Within a year and a half, he had managed to save enough money to pay towards his braces. At the age of sixteen, he was fitted with his first pair of braces which he's due to have removed very soon. Once removed, he'll have a metal retainer to wear full time for ten weeks.

  
  

  
  

  
  
  
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  Just wanna go home

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  
  

  personality.

  
  

  
  
  

  type

  
  

  INFJ-T - Advocate personality. Introverted, intuitive, feeling, judging and turbulent

  
  
  

  likes

  
  

  Playing the guitar and piano, singing, writing songs, playing Tetris, reading, walking around the park with his headphones on and believe it or not, studying.

  
  
  

  dislikes

  
  

  Confrontation, lychee, loud noises, sudden changes and feeling trapped.

  
  
  

  positive traits

  
  

  creative

  
  

  Min-Joon plays the guitar and piano and loves to create his own music. In school he spends most of his time with the school band and performing at various concerts. Playing music and singing brings him to his happy place and he feels like he can escape the world around him. He has a vivid imagination with a strong sense of compassion which allows him not only use his creativity for technical challenges but human ones too.

  
  
  

  altru- stic

  
  

  He won’t engage in any actions or promote beliefs just to benefit himself. Any actions or strong beliefs he has, he advances with them with the intent of making a world a better place rather than a “look at me” mind frame.

  
  
  

  deter- mined

  
  

  When presented with an opportunity or task, Min-Joon is very determined to get it done as fast and proficiently as possible while not overlooking the small details. He rarely gets distracted or procrastinates which generally makes him the most ideal study partner

  
  
  

  negative traits

  
  

  sensitive

  
  

  Min-Joon is extremely sensitive and has a highly emotionally sensitive temperament. He struggles to let go of negative thoughts and emotions and can feel physically sick when something unpleasant is happening through the day. He’s often anxious and can tend to binge-eat to deal with the stress he feels. He worries way too much about what other people think of him and tends to take things very personally.

  
  
  

  private

  
  

  In a group setting, he tends to stray away from opening up. He’s extremely private about his personal life and finds trusting a new friend to be a very large challenge. He generally feels awkward in a group situation and feels unable to be himself, therefore will hide his true persona.

  
  
  

  easily burnt out

  
  

  As music is his way of letting off steam, Min-Joon finds himself easily burnt out when he can’t find the opportunity to express himself through his music. With university, studying, family life and working, Min-Joon struggles to find time for himself and his guitar.

  
  
  

  
  

  
  
  
  

  Party, trying my best to meet somebody

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  
  

  and more...

  
  

  
  
  

  love langu- age

  
  

  Min-Joon feels most loved when people encourage him through words of affirmation and listen actively to him. As he is quiet spoken and struggles to speak his mind, he feels encouraged and blessed when people take time to listen to what he has to say and respond positively

  
  
  

  habits

  
  

  When meeting someone for the first time, he tends to stutter over his words. He's notorious for rubbing his neck and constantly needing to clear his throat while speaking to people.

  
  
  

  hobbies

  
  

  Apart from playing piano and guitar, Min-Joon also really enjoys reading and writing. He has created his own songs and would like to be able to produce them one day.

  
  
  

  talents

  
  

  Playing guitar and piano, and singing. He has thought about auditioning with entertainment companies, but he fears that he wouldn't fit into their 'mould' and he is way too bland. Not to mention the thought of auditioning brings nothing but anxiety to his body.

  
  
  

  occup- ation

  
  

  Barista at a little cafe near school called Cloud Nine

  
  
  

  
  
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  But everybody around me is falling in love to our song

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  
  

  history.

  
  

  Birth to 2 years

  
  Min-Joon was welcomed to the Oh family on the 25th of August in Seoul, South Korea. His parents, Jin-Hye and Beom-Seok, had always hoped for a large family. Min-Joon was child number five and the youngest of the family which was made up of his parents and four older brothers. His four older brothers, Shi-Won, Young-Su, Jae-Hui and Sung-Jin, were all adored their new baby brother. Shi-Won was the oldest, having been thirteen when Min-Joon was born. Young-Su was ten, Jae-Hui was eight and Sung-Jin was six. Therefore, all the boys knew that they had to do their best to protect their little baby brother at all costs. They took turns to help their Umma and Appa to care for Min-Joon as they helped to change his nappy, feed him his meals and bottles, clothed him, bathe him and even put him to sleep. As Shin-Won was the oldest, he took it upon himself to encourage his parents to allow him to babysit Min-Joon and the others so they could spend more time together.
  
  

  3 years to 8 years

  
  It was around the time that Min-Joon was six that Beom-Seok and Jin-Hye realised that their son was different from their others. He was so easily overwhelmed by high levels of stimulation, sudden changes and even the emotional distress of others. Sometimes he was like an old man, asking deep, thought-provoking questions, being bothered by noisy places and wanting to go and play quietly by himself, and using rather large words for his age. He was sensitive to the smallest of pain and took his time to investigate to ensure things were safe before using them. The neighbourhood children would often tease him, calling him a crybaby as he seemed to tear up over the smallest things. His parents were so concerned that they even brought him to a child psychologist. After a couple of visits, the doctor came to the conclusion that there was nothing wrong with Min-Joon, but that he was an emotionally sensitive child.
  
  This meant having to change their approach to discipline around him. They accepted Min-Joon’s sensitivity, provided a great deal of downtime for him while also setting limits, verbally praised him for his efforts and taught him how to describe how he was feeling. They provided him with rewards whenever he verbally communicated to them his thoughts and emotions rather than bottling it all up and crying in his room like he would have normally done. To help with his cognitive thinking skills and logical processing skills, Beom-Seok decided to start teaching Min-Joon how to play the guitar. It seemed like something just clicked in Min-Joon’s brain the moment he held that guitar. He felt like he was at home and he could now express himself not just with words, but through a creative force.
  
  

  9 to 15 years

  
  Throughout his puberty, Min-Joon tried to take no (or at least, very little) interest in girls. His brothers were always trying to help him find a girlfriend or to get him to have his first kiss, but Min-Joon was always too scared to follow through. Every time he thought about going up to a girl he liked, he felt like his stomach was being twisted into knots and he would eventually end up vomiting all over the girl’s face. So, instead, he just kept his head down and would immerse himself in schoolwork. It was around this time that he began to get bullied at school for his features. The bullies would often pick on how bland he looked and how his teeth were crooked. He pleaded with his parents to get braces or surgery to fix his teeth, but they told him that there just wasn’t enough money to buy those things.
  
  Instead, with their blessings, he decided to get his first job at the age of fifteen. He started to work at a nearby shopping centre after school for three hours a day and full time on the weekends as a stock boy. His goal was to raise the money by himself and to get those damn braces.
  
  

  15 years to present

  
  So much stuff has happened in the last few years of Min-Joon’s life. For starters, he raised the money for his braces and ended up getting them around his birthday. As a present from his brothers, they took him to get his first pierced ear. Soon after that, Beom-Seok was diagnosed with stomach cancer and given months left to live. Thankfully, those months turned into a full year before his Appa passed away. With his Appa gone, he felt an overwhelming sense of responsibility on his shoulders to help his Umma. All his other brothers were now out of the house, either doing their military services or living with their significant others. So, it was up to him to help his Umma out.
  
  He decided to pick up a job at a local café, Cloud Nine, and decided he would work when he wasn’t at the school or studying. He had big plans to study music in university and to continue on with the dreams that his Appa had helped him to grow. However, he shortly discovered that every time he practised his guitar or piano, he would find his Umma in tears. Hearing music in the house reminded her of Appa and it tore her apart. Therefore, with a broken heart, he decided that maybe music wasn’t his path or destiny anymore. He instead decided to aim to enrol in Biological Sciences, knowing that his Umma and Appa would be proud of him as most of the university research was used to prevent and treat cancer. And so, for now, he had to focus on the things in life that would make his Umma happy as she had spent her whole life ensuring everyone else was. Even if that meant giving up the one thing in life that made him truly happy himself.
  
  

  
  
  
  

  Hate it, taking a shot 'cause I can't take it

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  
  
  
  

  
  

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