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I have never heard the sex as payment thing, christ. I guess some people see it as an obligation? but that sorta makes dating seem like long-winded prostitution, which is sorta fucked up.
A lot of guys were raised seeing women as the prize to claim, life has taught them that they are owed someone even if they arent, thats just what they expect because media has taught guys this for generations
 
I think that's because some people live under the assumption that guys like to chase girls, they like for them to play hard to get and have a challenge. (Agian, Aro Ace here.) I don't understand it; if I wanted a relationship, I'd want it to be built on a real connection, shared likes, dislikes opinions and interests; not how well I could play the other person's mind games and embark on this chase. So apparently there's some cutoff here since guys are supposed to be assertive but they don't realize they're not supposed to be THAT assertive.

If someone plays mind games they were either taught that, are crazy or are a gold digger, we dont care about assertiveness, we care about how we are compatiblr
 
Being led on sucks ass. Girls who want all the dudes passwords and shit so he has no privacy. Boy's nights are mandatory at least once a weak. When girls cannot control their emotions it seems very immature almost akin to a temper tantrum from a child.

Other than that I haven't been in a relationship for about two and a half years and the last one I was in was terribly abusive against me so yeah my opinion might be a little bias though I am not upset about any of it so I doubt it is bias.
 
I hate it when the girl gives you her number but when you txt her if she
“No de wei”

she txts back “I’m not your queen.”
 
What Guys Do That Girls Hate
1.) Judging Periods - If a girl tells you that she's on her period, some guys tend to cringe or act differently. I'm not saying "all guys", I'm saying "some" based on my experience and my friends' experiences.

2.) Gaming - When guys play games a bit too much and don't pay attention to their girlfriend/wife.

3.) Looking at other girls - Basically, the guy isn't really cheating, just looking at them. Not flirting or anything. Still a bit annoying, since he already has a girlfriend/wife.

4.) Persistent - I personally hate when people--not guys in general, both men and female--are persistent in having sex. If your partner feels uncomfortable, give up and give them space.

5.) Watching Porn - I mean, yeah, it's your personal life, but still, it kind of grosses me out a bit. I don't know if it's just me, or not.

6.) Guys thinking girls are bitches and judging them all based on one girl

7.) Guys thinking girls are tiring.
 
A lot of guys were raised seeing women as the prize to claim, life has taught them that they are owed someone even if they arent, thats just what they expect because media has taught guys this for generations
That kind of pissed me off a bit. You're not wrong, but not just guys were raised like that. Girls might have that mindset too.
 
What Guys Do That Girls Hate
1.) Judging Periods - If a girl tells you that she's on her period, some guys tend to cringe or act differently. I'm not saying "all guys", I'm saying "some" based on my experience and my friends' experiences.

2.) Gaming - When guys play games a bit too much and don't pay attention to their girlfriend/wife.

3.) Looking at other girls - Basically, the guy isn't really cheating, just looking at them. Not flirting or anything. Still a bit annoying, since he already has a girlfriend/wife.

4.) Persistent - I personally hate when people--not guys in general, both men and female--are persistent in having sex. If your partner feels uncomfortable, give up and give them space.

5.) Watching Porn - I mean, yeah, it's your personal life, but still, it kind of grosses me out a bit. I don't know if it's just me, or not.

6.) Guys thinking girls are bitches and judging them all based on one girl

7.) Guys thinking girls are tiring.
I think there is a thread for that. This thread is for the reverse
 
Yeah, I know. Just wanted to post it here, since I'm too lazy to find it.
to your first post on this page: I know most women don't expect to be handed a man by life BUT they are expected to e able to just lay around and be romanced, they dont feel they don't have to put in any effort in romancing (the exception I find tends to be gay or lesbian, why? probably a lack of lgbt romances in literature and movies and other media, not that they don't internalize these lessons somewhat as well, they just tend to not fall for that kind of stuff)

and to the post I quoted? the thread has been deleted, I haven't been able to find it again and nothing pops up in the search function on this site *shrugs*
 
to your first post on this page: I know most women don't expect to be handed a man by life BUT they are expected to e able to just lay around and be romanced, they dont feel they don't have to put in any effort in romancing (the exception I find tends to be gay or lesbian, why? probably a lack of lgbt romances in literature and movies and other media, not that they don't internalize these lessons somewhat as well, they just tend to not fall for that kind of stuff)

and to the post I quoted? the thread has been deleted, I haven't been able to find it again and nothing pops up in the search function on this site *shrugs*
Thats false. They are not expected to just not do anything. In a relationship, both of you must be able to contribute. If not, how the hell will the relationship keep going?
 
Thats false. They are not expected to just not do anything. In a relationship, both of you must be able to contribute. If not, how the hell will the relationship keep going?
I think they're referencing the stereotypical trophy wife.
 
Beautiful, entitled, usually given what they want when they want
Stay the same from high school etc
 
There's a stereotype for a trophy wife? Wtf?

Yeah.

You know the "wives are just present to make the husband look good" thing. Of course I could be mixing my wording up with another stereotype, but it does exist.

Basically, the stereotype is that a woman just has to look good and the man has to do everything else in the relationship.

EDIT: What Flowiest D Flowiest D said.
 
Yeah.

You know the "wives are just present to make the husband look good" thing. Of course I could be mixing my wording up with another stereotype, but it does exist.

Basically, the stereotype is that a woman just has to look good and the man has to do everything else in the relationship.
That's idiotic.

Another reason why I need to drink bleach right now.
 
Hey, I AM a stereotype in a useless idiot world.
Oh, great. Another useless stereotype to add in this useless and idiotic world.
And I get sick of having to deal with women wanting me for physical gratification and my rhyming ways
 
Double standards is the biggest one for me, which is pin down to confusion (in some cases intentional) over the two EQs.

Aside from that, I hate girls who refer to me or other people as gentlemen with a positive twist on the word. The "reign of gentlemanly conduct" as I like to put it, was a period during which men were expected to behave a set way and, in turn, women were expected to behave a set way also (specifically, to be oppressed). Women have gained considerable freedoms since then, which I agree with, but I don't understand this culture of trying to bring back the "good old days when men were gentlemen" without understanding the tit for tat (heavily favouring men) arrangement that it was.
 
...add... add to that being insecure about their female friends... *sighs and covers face shamefully*
 

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