BakaTheIdiot
Viscount of Spaghetti Code
Loss is rough. Everybody knows this, but I guess I handle it a little differently than most. A little. Maybe I'm still processing it. I don't know. All I know is that someone in my family died, only about an hour ago, and I don't feel sad.
Maybe it's because I wasn't there. Maybe it's because I didn't really know him. All I know is that he's dead. I don't feel sad, but I do feel awful. I feel awful about how I'm handling this. My parents broke down crying, and all I did was say "I know, it sucks." Am I doing something wrong? Am I insane? Why am I so casual about this?
I shed more tears over a cat than my own family. Why is that? When my first cat, Chairman Meow, died, I felt absolutely destroyed. I couldn't even look at the event, I couldn't even watch the vets put him into an infinite sleep. I recovered, little by little, and went to school the next day, even though I really didn't want to.
Now, my relative, who only lived to be thirty, fell victim to the horror of cancer, but I feel nothing. Why can't I bring myself to feel sad? I didn't hate him. He had done nothing wrong. Yet, there he was, dead in a hospital bed. Why am I still so calm? True, I had only really spoken to him once in my entire lifetime, but I heard the stories, I knew who he was, to a degree. Still, here I am, typing a post while the oscars are going on. Here, I write to this community, instead of bawling my eyes out, not because I don't care, but because I have no tears to cry. I put the question to you, reader, why is that? Have I just fallen out of touch with my humanity, or am I just in shock. Maybe I'll never know.
-Baka
Maybe it's because I wasn't there. Maybe it's because I didn't really know him. All I know is that he's dead. I don't feel sad, but I do feel awful. I feel awful about how I'm handling this. My parents broke down crying, and all I did was say "I know, it sucks." Am I doing something wrong? Am I insane? Why am I so casual about this?
I shed more tears over a cat than my own family. Why is that? When my first cat, Chairman Meow, died, I felt absolutely destroyed. I couldn't even look at the event, I couldn't even watch the vets put him into an infinite sleep. I recovered, little by little, and went to school the next day, even though I really didn't want to.
Now, my relative, who only lived to be thirty, fell victim to the horror of cancer, but I feel nothing. Why can't I bring myself to feel sad? I didn't hate him. He had done nothing wrong. Yet, there he was, dead in a hospital bed. Why am I still so calm? True, I had only really spoken to him once in my entire lifetime, but I heard the stories, I knew who he was, to a degree. Still, here I am, typing a post while the oscars are going on. Here, I write to this community, instead of bawling my eyes out, not because I don't care, but because I have no tears to cry. I put the question to you, reader, why is that? Have I just fallen out of touch with my humanity, or am I just in shock. Maybe I'll never know.
-Baka