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Don’t take things personally (IC issue)… well the subject of this is plain to see really but I will elaborate anyway.
I’ve been lurking on this board for a while now, posting on other people’s rants but was never brave enough to post myself, until now anyway. I’d like to state, before I post, that this has happened on another site, so I’m not picking on anyone here, or there actually… but never mind that. I just want someone else’s’ point of view, and perhaps have a giggle (too long to read? I've summarised at the bottom).
I’ve been roleplaying for years, it’s great fun however, on multiple occasions I have witnessed people get all uppity over an In Character (IC) comment or fight. They take it to heart and either explode, sulk or straight up leave the roleplay without another word. Now usually I try to be the peace keeper and if someone is upset I will try my hardest to make things better. I care. I’m sure a lot of you out there do too…
However, I recently found myself as the cause and this was just the straw that broke the camel’s back. So let me lay things down for you: My character is the only human in a roleplay where everyone is a supernatural being. No one wanted the human, but I like the, supposedly, weak or side-line characters as I’ve never been much for the limelight.
So this character, let’s call her Stacey, is in kitchen midnight baking. She has adorned fluffy, pink bunny slippers, has a bright vomit green dressing gown on and is singing along to one direction… All these terrifying, and questionable taste choices aside however, there is a hot guy watching her. She doesn’t know this, or the fact that he is a werewolf, let’s call him Jake (hehe…twilight..hehe). If anything, he’s that dark brooding type that doesn’t say much but he suddenly appears in her kitchen with an invitation to join him and some friends to a club.
Before she gets the chance to decline however, he interrupts her with the ‘I have to show you something’ and BAM, the hot dude hits the floor howling in pain. Horrified, Stacey watches Jake transform into a hulking humanoid wolf with claws the size of mini kitchen knives, thick fur, towering height and a muzzle as long as Stacey’s forearm, packed to the brim with pearly white teeth.
So, to me, right there and then, my character’s normal life has been ripped open and not really having a great constitution, she freaks out. She goes pale, and in a true film nerd fashion, including the Arny’s accent, quotes predator “You’re one ugly mother..”( You get the jist). Shortly after, she then arms herself with a whisk. Survival skills aren’t strong with this one. But she isn’t thinking straight. Again there’s a werewolf in her kitchen (and this isn't twilight).
Now, shortly after posting this, the person who controls Jake flips out. He says I should rewrite, because his character is being nice. Admittedly, from his stand point, yes, but Stacey is a human who believed werewolves only belonged in films and stories. He kept ranting, until I apologised and edited for the sake of peace. We then moved on, but from that point his character was openly vicious to mine, which from an in character standpoint makes sense... if I hadn’t edited.
In the OOC, the dude openly stated he didn’t like me. I accepted this, made a joke out of it and from that point, avoided conversation with him. I didn’t want to start a fight after all.
The sad thing is, I like everyone in the rp, they are great, even Jake’s dude, and I love the rp itself but I honestly feel like I’m walking on eggshells all the time now.
So to the people out there who were plucky enough to wade through my long rant, have you ever taken an IC comment to heart? I admit, some people deliberately jab fun in IC then deny its real when they are pulled up on it, but still, those few cases aside =/
If you haven’t, have you got any similar stories to share?
Obviously, do not use this as a chance to name and shame. Change names and change places if needed please.
Tl; dr:
A guy takes IC comment seriously, flips out and demands I apologise and edit. I’ve also seen people up and leave rps without a word because of a harmless IC jest.
Has this ever happened to you? Have you ever taken anything to heart from the IC? Please share, both serious and funny, as life is far too short to be all doom and gloom.
Also, if I have ever insulted someone unwittingly via an IC comment here I am sorry!! And please don't take it to heart. It is part of character development, not me calling you a freak
I’ve been lurking on this board for a while now, posting on other people’s rants but was never brave enough to post myself, until now anyway. I’d like to state, before I post, that this has happened on another site, so I’m not picking on anyone here, or there actually… but never mind that. I just want someone else’s’ point of view, and perhaps have a giggle (too long to read? I've summarised at the bottom).
I’ve been roleplaying for years, it’s great fun however, on multiple occasions I have witnessed people get all uppity over an In Character (IC) comment or fight. They take it to heart and either explode, sulk or straight up leave the roleplay without another word. Now usually I try to be the peace keeper and if someone is upset I will try my hardest to make things better. I care. I’m sure a lot of you out there do too…
However, I recently found myself as the cause and this was just the straw that broke the camel’s back. So let me lay things down for you: My character is the only human in a roleplay where everyone is a supernatural being. No one wanted the human, but I like the, supposedly, weak or side-line characters as I’ve never been much for the limelight.
So this character, let’s call her Stacey, is in kitchen midnight baking. She has adorned fluffy, pink bunny slippers, has a bright vomit green dressing gown on and is singing along to one direction… All these terrifying, and questionable taste choices aside however, there is a hot guy watching her. She doesn’t know this, or the fact that he is a werewolf, let’s call him Jake (hehe…twilight..hehe). If anything, he’s that dark brooding type that doesn’t say much but he suddenly appears in her kitchen with an invitation to join him and some friends to a club.
Before she gets the chance to decline however, he interrupts her with the ‘I have to show you something’ and BAM, the hot dude hits the floor howling in pain. Horrified, Stacey watches Jake transform into a hulking humanoid wolf with claws the size of mini kitchen knives, thick fur, towering height and a muzzle as long as Stacey’s forearm, packed to the brim with pearly white teeth.
So, to me, right there and then, my character’s normal life has been ripped open and not really having a great constitution, she freaks out. She goes pale, and in a true film nerd fashion, including the Arny’s accent, quotes predator “You’re one ugly mother..”( You get the jist). Shortly after, she then arms herself with a whisk. Survival skills aren’t strong with this one. But she isn’t thinking straight. Again there’s a werewolf in her kitchen (and this isn't twilight).
Now, shortly after posting this, the person who controls Jake flips out. He says I should rewrite, because his character is being nice. Admittedly, from his stand point, yes, but Stacey is a human who believed werewolves only belonged in films and stories. He kept ranting, until I apologised and edited for the sake of peace. We then moved on, but from that point his character was openly vicious to mine, which from an in character standpoint makes sense... if I hadn’t edited.
In the OOC, the dude openly stated he didn’t like me. I accepted this, made a joke out of it and from that point, avoided conversation with him. I didn’t want to start a fight after all.
The sad thing is, I like everyone in the rp, they are great, even Jake’s dude, and I love the rp itself but I honestly feel like I’m walking on eggshells all the time now.
So to the people out there who were plucky enough to wade through my long rant, have you ever taken an IC comment to heart? I admit, some people deliberately jab fun in IC then deny its real when they are pulled up on it, but still, those few cases aside =/
If you haven’t, have you got any similar stories to share?
Obviously, do not use this as a chance to name and shame. Change names and change places if needed please.
Tl; dr:
A guy takes IC comment seriously, flips out and demands I apologise and edit. I’ve also seen people up and leave rps without a word because of a harmless IC jest.
Has this ever happened to you? Have you ever taken anything to heart from the IC? Please share, both serious and funny, as life is far too short to be all doom and gloom.
Also, if I have ever insulted someone unwittingly via an IC comment here I am sorry!! And please don't take it to heart. It is part of character development, not me calling you a freak
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