Master of Malfeasance
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For those who follow these threads closely (as I wish that I had time to), I've been doing some soul searching. Â After concluding that I'm so twisted and Malfeasant that I meet myself coming around corners, I have also concluded that my love for gaming is dwindling.
The cycle goes something like this:
I have a group in San Antonio, where my mom lives, whom I try to visit every weekend. Â We play Exalted. Â It WAS fun for a few months, but I can't get this group to focus on anything for long. Â I run a good game, and I get phone calls ALL F***ing week asking me about specifics of the game. Â
me: Â (rasping and bleary) What the hell?\
LetsRideBikes: HEYMASTEROFMALFEASANCEWILLYOUTELLMEABOUTTHATTOTALLY
RADICALDAIKLAIVEIGOTMYCHARACTERLASTGAMEWHENITOTALLYDESTR-
OYEDTHATBUSFULLOFNUNS?
me: (hangs up)
LetsRideBikes:
HEYMASTEROFMALFEASANCEITHINKILOSTTHECONNECTION,BUTWILL...
me: (hangs up)
<the next morning>
me: Sorry, sir, and that's why... (phone rings)
Midgetking: hey, are you going to be in town?
me: sure. Â See you, then, buddy! (hangs up.. phone rings)
Canadianspecialforces: Hey, MoM, ya gonna be in town?
me: yeah, unless something weird happens. Â Later (hangs up.. phone rings)
LetsRideBikes: Hey!! are you going to be...
me: (hangs up)
<end>
You get the point. Â then I have this other group of completely well-adjusted people who don't have the same tenure in my life as my friends from school in San Antonio. Â Not only are they closer, but they're all veteran gamers.
Typically, I go to San Antonio the first weekend of the month, and get so throroughly pissed off at the very idea of ever picking up a die again unless it's to lodge it in DeadPoet's cranial cavity for skipping out on yet another game so that he can boink his girlfriend while her kids are gone.
These people, this first goup of my oldest friends are all good people going to college on their way to respectable careers, but they have a lot to learn about gaming.
So I come home and game with the second group, and they're all fun people, and we all get together and laugh and joke and have a great time, but I always feel as though I bring them down. Â The jokes that I make are incisive and I don't want them to be, the generalizations that I make, while funny, almost always hurt someone's feelings, and I'm not trying to. Â They're not overly sensitive, I just sometimes feel that I take out my frustrations from the first group on the second.
It sounds like it would be really easy to just stop gaming with the San Antonio crew, but I always feel guilty; like I'm leaving my buddies to twist in the wind. Â For all of the Malfeasance I want to bring to bear, they really don't deserve to be in the crosshairs for it. Â
This sounds like an MPH (my pussy hurts) problem, I know, but gaming is one of the few things that I enjoy to the very core of myself, and my very own ties of friendship and brotherhood appear to be dragging it spiralling down into the crapper.
Damn... I went to the MK 19 (40mm automatic grenade launcher) firing range today, and it didn't make me feel better. Â This is serious.
Help?
The cycle goes something like this:
I have a group in San Antonio, where my mom lives, whom I try to visit every weekend. Â We play Exalted. Â It WAS fun for a few months, but I can't get this group to focus on anything for long. Â I run a good game, and I get phone calls ALL F***ing week asking me about specifics of the game. Â
me: Â (rasping and bleary) What the hell?\
LetsRideBikes: HEYMASTEROFMALFEASANCEWILLYOUTELLMEABOUTTHATTOTALLY
RADICALDAIKLAIVEIGOTMYCHARACTERLASTGAMEWHENITOTALLYDESTR-
OYEDTHATBUSFULLOFNUNS?
me: (hangs up)
LetsRideBikes:
HEYMASTEROFMALFEASANCEITHINKILOSTTHECONNECTION,BUTWILL...
me: (hangs up)
<the next morning>
me: Sorry, sir, and that's why... (phone rings)
Midgetking: hey, are you going to be in town?
me: sure. Â See you, then, buddy! (hangs up.. phone rings)
Canadianspecialforces: Hey, MoM, ya gonna be in town?
me: yeah, unless something weird happens. Â Later (hangs up.. phone rings)
LetsRideBikes: Hey!! are you going to be...
me: (hangs up)
<end>
You get the point. Â then I have this other group of completely well-adjusted people who don't have the same tenure in my life as my friends from school in San Antonio. Â Not only are they closer, but they're all veteran gamers.
Typically, I go to San Antonio the first weekend of the month, and get so throroughly pissed off at the very idea of ever picking up a die again unless it's to lodge it in DeadPoet's cranial cavity for skipping out on yet another game so that he can boink his girlfriend while her kids are gone.
These people, this first goup of my oldest friends are all good people going to college on their way to respectable careers, but they have a lot to learn about gaming.
So I come home and game with the second group, and they're all fun people, and we all get together and laugh and joke and have a great time, but I always feel as though I bring them down. Â The jokes that I make are incisive and I don't want them to be, the generalizations that I make, while funny, almost always hurt someone's feelings, and I'm not trying to. Â They're not overly sensitive, I just sometimes feel that I take out my frustrations from the first group on the second.
It sounds like it would be really easy to just stop gaming with the San Antonio crew, but I always feel guilty; like I'm leaving my buddies to twist in the wind. Â For all of the Malfeasance I want to bring to bear, they really don't deserve to be in the crosshairs for it. Â
This sounds like an MPH (my pussy hurts) problem, I know, but gaming is one of the few things that I enjoy to the very core of myself, and my very own ties of friendship and brotherhood appear to be dragging it spiralling down into the crapper.
Damn... I went to the MK 19 (40mm automatic grenade launcher) firing range today, and it didn't make me feel better. Â This is serious.
Help?