Bachelor Snakeskin
Junior Member
So I always loved meeting people and finding new partners, and I admit that I am a terrible example of a person in communication outside of role-play. Nonetheless, I have aged and matured over the last few years as I turn toward my late twenties. I always believe that it is the best option to communicate well with my partner, and I always wonder if we are so bad at communicating truthfully on the internet. When I make my threads here requesting to role play with new people, it usually just ends on a ghosting note which is fair enough however, as the years go one I much rather like to have someone say if they don't like something in a role play, or if I should edit something in my post to make it better or if just want to stop. I hold no hard feelings towards people who want to stop role-playing; all I personally want to know is the reason behind it, as I am not gonna get angry. I am mature enough to deal with the emotion of losing a role play, and it is almost always the act of ghosting that makes it a whole lot worse because I never get any feedback on what I could have done better.
With this in mind I would love to hear some good constructive reasons for why someone ghosts out instead of just being honest.
The second part of this post is another tiresome topic I have also experienced a lot lately, negotiations of role play and execution. Earlier today I was contacted about something I had a long, hard look for, but it ended up leading to nothing when the other party wasn't willing to negotiate the amount of posting, they wanted daily posts and I am someone who can give posts that within a few days to a week at best. Because I have a life outside of role play, but this person was either daily post or I will not role play, how can you explain to someone in a good way that not all of us have the muse, time or energy to do daily posting and maybe we could settle for something that makes us both happy instead of being pulled apart because one part only agrees with on thing and not what the other suggests?
Thank you for coming to my ted talk, I will be hanging out here and look forward to hearing about some experiences.
With this in mind I would love to hear some good constructive reasons for why someone ghosts out instead of just being honest.
The second part of this post is another tiresome topic I have also experienced a lot lately, negotiations of role play and execution. Earlier today I was contacted about something I had a long, hard look for, but it ended up leading to nothing when the other party wasn't willing to negotiate the amount of posting, they wanted daily posts and I am someone who can give posts that within a few days to a week at best. Because I have a life outside of role play, but this person was either daily post or I will not role play, how can you explain to someone in a good way that not all of us have the muse, time or energy to do daily posting and maybe we could settle for something that makes us both happy instead of being pulled apart because one part only agrees with on thing and not what the other suggests?
Thank you for coming to my ted talk, I will be hanging out here and look forward to hearing about some experiences.