Yea, but at that point it's just trial and error. I'm on and off because getting ghosted makes me lose all motivation. It'd be a lot easier to weed out those who don't respect their partner enough to give them a heads up.
Why isn't there a system to let you know someone often ghosts? I've finished 1 rp on this site. Most of the others were me just getting ghosted. Weither it be in 1x1 or groups. It's the only I reason I don't want to post my own ideas for groups; it would be a waste of time since there's a 95%...
If you violated any rules, you should have gotten a notification about it. Otherwise, it could be a blip on the websites part. Or you just passed over it.