Hello,
I am a newcomer to Gargoyles myself, and a fan of Iron Man & Xanatos. I'd be more than happy to play him for you & if you had any specific head canon quirks (from either character) I'd be happy to incorporate them in. Feel free to send me a DM with your discord if you want to talk more.
I've seen both the Book of Life & Maya and the Three. I'm interested if you are still seeking partners. Did you have any specific ideas or just to loosely follow the plot of Maya & The Three?
Yes, there are a handful of members who do not support LGBTQA+ causes. I do not think it's common place here but it is a thing for a few people. (I said LGBTQA+, I'm not talking about people who won't do specific gender pairings).
Have you tried making a topic? It's easier for people to search for RPs. Bumping semi regularly helps. I like animal RPs and looked at your profile but couldn't find your own thread. Being active + maintaining a thread helps find RP partners. 90% of my rps are from people approaching me.
You can't repair a broken home unless you utterly redo the foundation, redoing the foundation of a group of people is messy, and uncomfortable, and near impossible without breaking a bunch of eggs. Leaving is a better choice, and far less stressful.