RpNation

One Rp you are forgetting is my group RP. I left you messages and all that. But you still ignore. I don't know what i am to do to get you to reply. I really want to hear from you. But how... how can i do it if you won't bite? I can't tell if you're online. The indicator is off. Sure wish i knew what it was that you were doing or if you were... still around.

This person could be going through hell right now and you're pressuring them about your roleplay?

Well... i am sorry about what they're going through. I am. But... how do i know what the hell they're going through... if this said person won't even talk to me? I can't very well read minds. Now... can i?

Talking to people is a little difficult when you're extremely anxious/under intense pressure. Some people CAN'T talk to people or have to cut less important things like RpN out of their life because of stress.
Maybe just be patient. They might get to you eventually after they deal with the other stress in their life.

It's understandable. And if i need to wait. I will. Just that i needed to be aware of it. But now that i do... i can wait till they return.

That's a polite thing to do.

How long have you been waiting already?

Almost 2 and a half weeks. Now.

Well, hopefully they come back. If not, I'm sure you'll get by. c:
Keep in mind that a lot of people tend to leave roleplays without warning, too. It's not generally a great thing to do, but it does happen a lot.

Good luck with your role play.

unless you'd like to join in it. Which... would be great... if you happened to do so.

I'm not interested, thanks.

Joanna Matilda Barlow You are always pressuring my friends about your roleplays.... It really gets bothersome, and when you are talking on a profile post that says they are really struggling... I think you need to back off and give people time.

Haven't said anything since friday. But thanks for assuming that i'm still pressuring. Sure feels nice being the postergirl for resident jester.

There's no need to be dramatic. LadybirdMooch was offering just a little bit of constructive criticism, Joanna Matilda Barlow . I would choose to take it gracefully.

That maybe the case... but i haven't pushed Ryoko since friday. LadybirdMooch coulda told me on friday... but waits till today? No... I think that attempt of constructive criticism was left outside the door and expected to claw at the door waiting to come in.

Whether it's old criticism or not, it's criticism that you SHOULD follow and SHOULD take with grace. That changes nothing.

Even if you learned from your mistake already, you don't have to be the way you're being.. I see no reason to say "Sure feels nice being the postergirl for resident jester. "

That's called guilt tripping. It's really rather rude. It would be better to simply admit that mistakes were made.

Oh... I've long since done that since friday. No need to openly plaster it for all to see. Bad enough i feel it. I don't need the masses to know it too. And nothing rude about what i said. I already noted that i was being the fool. I didn't need to be put on the spot. I've since backed off. That should be good foreplay for anyone.

Okay, you've backed off, and that's GOOD. So why are you being like this? Would it not be easier to just say "Okay! I've learned my lesson already though, thanks"? There's a lot less drama if you're just polite about it.

Well... you'll have to excuse me on that. But i don't do good being put in a corner with my guard down. I don't like that. But yes... it's been done. i don't need to be going through it again.

I fail to see how anyone is backing you into a corner here. I see someone offering you constructive criticism for the future in a polite manner.

It felt like that. But i get the point. Can we please just have everyone let this incident die. I since friday forgot about what happened and if it'd be all fine with others... I'd like to maybe perhaps keep it that way. But yes. Criticism received. i got it. I just want to get past this and move on. I don't see it being too much to ask.