TThats how it normally is Sano, and I think it's stupid, if someone wants to know why you're upset then you tell them why so they could learn from their mistakes and not do it again in the future. If you don't tell them why then theyll keep making the same mistake never understanding why it upset someone. Communication is key, relationships aren't a riddle, it's a responsibility
GOSH DANG ENDLESS LOOPS OF MISERY