A few years ago I was writing a roleplay that was actually really good and enjoyable, but my partner was extremely volatile to a point where I couldn't handle it anymore. One time they told me that people like me are what's wrong with the world because I said I wouldn't consider going completely...
For me it has been Mo Dao Zu Shi/The Untamed and Word of Honor/Faraway Wanderers for a while now. I think it's because they are BL/danmei fandoms and I quite strongly dislike some tropes that are very prominent in the genre and establish that pretty firmly in my searches, which I imagine will...