I use Anathema for Exalted, though I have several issues with it, but it gives m better results than EdExalted. I can't seem to print a PDF out of EdExalted, and when i did manage to get a character sheet printed, it lacked all Charms I chose.
And for the Legend of the Five Rings, I second L5R...
It's up to player attitude. D&D players are pretty much taught that opponents are manageable, especially in recent editions. Exalted and Scion make it less distinct, because there are bigger fish than you, and in some cases, much bigger than you.
In my table-top Exalted game, that has probably...
Legend of the Five Rings can also work. In fact, in Imperial Histories 2, page 289, is the start of a chapter named Empire of the Emerald Stars, which is basically Rokugan in Space.