I'm going to agree to disagree here. I'm not saying men and women are the same--we wouldn't have different words if they were--, but I really do believe, that in the ways that matter most, gender doesn't make a difference.
This is a bad idea, and I think you already have an inkling that this is a bad idea. What I think you need to internalize, and that you probably already know mentally, is fundamentally, in the things that matter most, women are just like men. If you really want to pull off an idea like this...