the only time it happens is when I was a kid and old creepy men hit on me lmao. usually people think I'm younger than I actually am (it's the baby face)
Victims (the word sounds heavy, but it doesn't have to be heavy stuff. it can be little petty things too) shouldn't have to "take the upper hand" in order to be above whoever is being shitty to them. Victims shouldn't have to restrain themselves or their anger, and if they choose not to, it is...