Oh gosh, I really relate to these. I've been in so many rps like this that it became so frustrating. All these are just something that I cannot take. At first, I still try to engage with them. But after a while of suggesting nicely that they should try to change their character a little in order...
Well I won't take sides, but if it's really extreme then possibly yes. I guess some people just want to see how it'll be, pairing up someone with a military background? But honestly, I've seen a lot just fantasize so much that it isn't a realistic "military" personnel anymore. It's just a...
I agree with that. If it's like legitimate/the rp is about some military thing, and the character isn't like so awesome, then it's fine because honestly a topic such as military/wartime is pretty fun to roleplay out. However, like the second part, I've seen a lot of that. Honestly that's not...
Like everyone said, this isn't about you- it isn't your fault or anything of that sort. You probably just haven't found the right person/people yet. There are definitely people out there that will click with you; it's just a matter of time. I'm sure if you continue the search, you'd be able to...