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  1. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help What is compromise to you?

    This! I learned of these in therapy when I was recovering my narcissistic ex who spent several years manipulating me. He used these lines a lot. I honestly thought my rp partner was giving a genuine apology since he had not used these lines. He did seem like he was truly admitting fault, but I...
  2. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help What is compromise to you?

    Lil update, I will be dropping him as a partner, the conversation happened, he's a hypocrite, unwilling to compromise, and only see's me as the problem.
  3. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help What is compromise to you?

    I'll be honest, I straight up see this ending with him unwilling to compromise and me dropping him as an rp partner.
  4. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help What is compromise to you?

    I wanted to give him a second chance because he did admit he was wrong. I am hoping he didn't admit he was wrong just to pull me back in and repeat himself. I would like to see how our next conversation goes before dropping him.
  5. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help What is compromise to you?

    The first one! Also I know, I know very much I probably shouldn't have given him a second chance.
  6. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help What is compromise to you?

    I should add as to why I see him as someone who does not make compromise, is because he keeps asking me to make changes to my characters, including my personal project. He even went as far as saying he had no interest in my characters because they were 'too much.' They weren't, there were just a...
  7. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help What is compromise to you?

    What do you do when you and your partner have separate ideas? Do you look for a way to combine ideas? Add details to both your ideas and come back to see whose you flow with best? My partner, previously a former partner, asked for a second chance. I know some of you, even I am, are rolling...
  8. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help Partner want's something specific but also won't tell me what they want, please help

    The weird thing is my friend didn't even like the other guy and laughed about how shitty of an rp partner he was, then proceeded to be just like him. I guess I can try one more time.
  9. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help Partner want's something specific but also won't tell me what they want, please help

    I have attempted to find a partner here and got nothing. I feel like even if I do manage to get something, with my bad luck it won't end well.
  10. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help Partner want's something specific but also won't tell me what they want, please help

    I did tell him and I have decided to drop him as a partner. He still wouldn't tell me what he wanted and he couldn't accept the abilities some of my characters had. He said they provided no true benefit to the story, the same of which could easily be said about his canon characters. I must...
  11. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help Partner want's something specific but also won't tell me what they want, please help

    I have specifically asked him what he wants, he just keeps telling he shouldn't have to specific, he shouldn't have to give me a map. And no he doesn't compromise, dropping him as an rp partner might honestly be better. I have already compromised on things but it's only been me compromising.
  12. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help Partner want's something specific but also won't tell me what they want, please help

    It's not and I feel that makes it so much worse. They did use to be friends though.
  13. ButterflyBlueLady

    Advice/Help Partner want's something specific but also won't tell me what they want, please help

    I need a way to get information out of my new partner. He's technically an old partner, but we went six years without doing rp and he's certainly changed. In the past when we did rp, everything was very random, we'd make a post and wing it from there. Now it has to have a specific end goal...
  14. ButterflyBlueLady

    Fandom Looking for a Record of Ragnarok Partner

    Right off the bat I'll admit I haven't done rp on here yet but I'd like to look for a new partner and give it a shot on here. I am still learning my way and accept guidance. I myself am not comfortable using canon characters because I feel I can't keep them in character but I use a lot of...
  15. ButterflyBlueLady

    Viewpoint Is it normal for people to try and change things about your character mid-rp?

    Thank you, I will attempt to branch out more.
  16. ButterflyBlueLady

    Viewpoint Is it normal for people to try and change things about your character mid-rp?

    It is, I have so many problems with him I could write a book. I did talk to him about his god awful insert and he deleted it but was very upset over it. Talking to him about things and putting my foot down is so difficult cause it always leads to a fight and him feeling personally attacked. You...
  17. ButterflyBlueLady

    Viewpoint Is it normal for people to try and change things about your character mid-rp?

    I gave this a like before going to bed but now that I am awake I will give a reply. He is admittedly a godmodder which is why I try to avoid things with him where he does try it. This is my first time experiencing it when it wasn't in a battle type setting. He's one of those dudes who must...
  18. ButterflyBlueLady

    Viewpoint Is it normal for people to try and change things about your character mid-rp?

    I have this partner who likes to do what he calls improv, but I don't think it is. I was mid-rp with him, using one of my OC's. This one hasn't been drawn out yet but gave a very detailed description of what she looked. The important part: White-blueish straight long hair and wears a headband...
  19. ButterflyBlueLady

    Introduce Yourself!

    Ello~! I am ButterflyBlueLady, Butter for short, long time stalker, only made a couple post, trying to get more out there and find new partners.
  20. ButterflyBlueLady

    Viewpoint How do you feel about self-inserts? Is it weird for you or just me?

    Aint going to lie I know he's toxic. He's gotten so much worse in the past few years. B, A and I have all been friends and rp partners for over 10 years. It is tough to let go even though I know in my heart I'd probably so much happier without him.
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