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WanderingJester
WanderingJester
I'm not sure how much this will help. In my past experiences I've been more of in your sister's shoes than yours, but here are my suggestions:
WanderingJester
WanderingJester
let your sister know, face to face if possible, how afraid you are about what happened and what might happen in the future. Let her know all of your emotions, from how much you care to how much you're scared of losing her and having to cope with the fact that she wouldn't be around anymore.
WanderingJester
WanderingJester
Then take the effort to get to know when she's free and call her every day just to let her know how your day was and how she's really doing. Make sure this doesn't become just a routine and be willing to be venerable with how you're really doing. That way she'll know that you struggle with stuff too and need her and isn't just trying to fulfill some "sisterly duties."
SerenaStark
SerenaStark
I did that this morning <3 I couldn't believe what she was telling me and I just held her for about 5 minutes or so and just told her how much I loved her and what she meant to me. She started to be more truthful with me after that and I just want her to know that she can talk to me about anything and everything she needs. WanderingJester WanderingJester
SerenaStark
SerenaStark
WanderingJester WanderingJester Luckily now I'm home for like a year so I can be here in case she needs anything. Like I said I'm just terrified that one day she won't be here anymore. It just scares me more than anything in this world. But I talked to her for like an hour this morning and just held her close to me. I'm really glad that she told me
WanderingJester
WanderingJester
Lastly, take it one day at a time, for the both of you. Maybe this won't happen at first, but let her know she can call you at any time if she suddenly feels really bad or down. That it's an option for her, and then all you can do is pray. Hope this helps and Godspeed to you and your sister. Glad she's feeling and doing much better since then.
WanderingJester
WanderingJester
Glad to hear you're home with her. That'll make the conversations much more personal and heartfelt (being face to face). Then I guess, like I said, just take it one day at a time then. :) Godspeed to you both
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