I don't know! I love my characters enough to want them to be happy in their "lives", but at the same time this makes me want to be mean to them even more!
Character development is fun! But a lot of times, tbh, when people force emotional distress or some kind of tragedy onto their characters, it just comes off as dramatic and it makes me cringe in my opinion (Used to like crushing my OC's in the past and LOLOL IM SO ASHAMED)