Shadow Rose
Hopeless Daydreamer
Before I start I must say I've all but given up on looking for a partner. I don't want anyone asking me for an RP with me out of pity (yes this has happened before). I'm not in the mood and I've generally have just lost all the interest I had once. Also this will be something of a rant but am also looking for advice as I genuinely feel like I did something to chase people away.
Alright so for two years I searched and searched for a partner. Maybe two. Not a whole lot. People I could start writing stories with and maybe even become good friends with as irl I'm not very good at making lasting friends either. Nobody likes to stay even though I've try to be nice to everyone.
I posted ads. I responded to ads. I never expected it to happen over night of course. And I did meet a couple of people that would have been absolutely wonderful partners if things had worked out. Like we hit it off and would have been easily been best friends for years and each respective RP would have lasted a good long time.
But then they left. One ghosted me. The other I can't even remember what the reason was but at least they had the courtesy to say they were dipping (even though I later learned they were actively RPing with other people and one more wouldn't have killed them).
There were others before of course. They've all ghosted. I get it. Life is crazy. Things happen that are out of your control. People have jobs and families. People get sick (especially these days). I have a job and family. I understand. I dont need to hear it for the umpteenth time.
What I dont understand is why I wasnt able to get at least one over the course of 2 years. I tried to be nice and give people options. I practice my writing to make sure it's good enough. I try to give my partners something to work with (I'm to the point where I can't even bring myself to do one liners). I'm always welcoming to those who maybe have a busier life and try to compensate, via if they can only do once a day that's fine, if they can only do on the weekends that's fine, whatever the case.
But I guess I'm not good enough. Maybe my expectations were too high. Maybe I was too picky. And I'm bummed about it. I really wanted it to work. But I just feel like I wasted a lot of my time.
Alright so for two years I searched and searched for a partner. Maybe two. Not a whole lot. People I could start writing stories with and maybe even become good friends with as irl I'm not very good at making lasting friends either. Nobody likes to stay even though I've try to be nice to everyone.
I posted ads. I responded to ads. I never expected it to happen over night of course. And I did meet a couple of people that would have been absolutely wonderful partners if things had worked out. Like we hit it off and would have been easily been best friends for years and each respective RP would have lasted a good long time.
But then they left. One ghosted me. The other I can't even remember what the reason was but at least they had the courtesy to say they were dipping (even though I later learned they were actively RPing with other people and one more wouldn't have killed them).
There were others before of course. They've all ghosted. I get it. Life is crazy. Things happen that are out of your control. People have jobs and families. People get sick (especially these days). I have a job and family. I understand. I dont need to hear it for the umpteenth time.
What I dont understand is why I wasnt able to get at least one over the course of 2 years. I tried to be nice and give people options. I practice my writing to make sure it's good enough. I try to give my partners something to work with (I'm to the point where I can't even bring myself to do one liners). I'm always welcoming to those who maybe have a busier life and try to compensate, via if they can only do once a day that's fine, if they can only do on the weekends that's fine, whatever the case.
But I guess I'm not good enough. Maybe my expectations were too high. Maybe I was too picky. And I'm bummed about it. I really wanted it to work. But I just feel like I wasted a lot of my time.