What do you mean not going to post again! You should, your thoughts were actually really insightful. I really like your analogy about the mind being like a lake and that maybe I should try to blend certain aspects of myself together, to hopefully find balance. It is going to take time, and lots of effort, but if you want I will keep you updated. Thank you for your thoughts, you were not harsh at all! Thank you.
Ah thank you, I just tend to feel bad that I have to flip a switch so quickly. It actually gets tiring, but I think I'm starting to get better at it. Though, it is tiring to be honest with you, and like
Cheesemick
said, I should try and find a balance between the two, and mix aspects of each other together.
Thank you. I'm surprised I'm actually crying, because I only met her and the others a few days ago. I guess that's what happens when you grow attached to a group of people who are very similar to you LOL.Let's hope your friend is doing okay at the moment.
Thank you for this.It seems like you're stuck in something of a tough situation; I commend your patience in dealing with it so far.
The one thing that is worth mentioning, and what your friend seems to be ignoring, is that this world is all your work: not your friend's, yours.
If they had some tact, they should realise that their character ought to fit in with the pre-established world as you permit and encourage, whilst allowing for some autonomy on your friend's part. In the very same manner that you wouldn't try to make characters to deliberately mess with the theme or timbre of a group roleplay, and what the said-GM has in mind for it, your friend should likewise be sensitive and understanding of where you want to see this world you've crafted up, go, and the generosity you've shown in letting play a role in it.
If they choose to remain ignorant about your feelings, desipte making them doubly clear through your character's own reaction, continue to be oblivious to the amount of work you're putting into each post AND still looking to upset the direction of the story, perhaps a break would be in order. Taking some time for yourself, to breathe, away from the annoyance of the situation, while your friend will hopefully takes the pause in roleplaying to consider why you've done this and how they, themselves, have been complicit in bringing about this action.
I know this must be difficult, especially since they're a friend, so I hope what I've said here might be helpful, even in the slightest of ways.
I hope the situation resolves itself for ya soon.
Aww thank you, I hope your day is going pretty well too! And also thank you for giving me advice and being a genuinely helpful person like no matter the subjectI know how ya mean by sharing the workload; reciprocating is the key to such things working out smoothly, and if there's a lack of it, it'll turn out how it is with your friend.
I think our OC's are all forms of us, whether that'd be using our own appearances, personalities, goals and ambitions as a part of their respective character(s). Nobody can really escape themselves seeping into their characters, or so I'd like to think.
One thing ya can do, though I can well imagine you've done so already, is a have an honest, 1-on-1 conversation with them. Explains your grievances, why they're (your friend) compounding them by refusing to act in an accomodating way and, if there's no change in how they go about interacting with yoy, that the roleplay might be dropped altogether, for your own peace of mind.
Forgive me if that sounds overbearing on my part, I just like to try and help at all if buckos are in a pinch.
Aside from this, I hope the day has been going well for ya!
Heyo! Baphomet here to give some sagely advice! No matter how awkward or difficult it may be, some people just need to be let go from your life. My personal suggestion is to gently let them down. Tell them you don't think they fit in well with your RP. You can be honest and tell them they make you uncomfortable. This is the approach I'd use because it's not cool for them to act that way. Especially with just forcefully inserting themselves. I think many things, like dating and going in for a kiss with your character, should be discussed OOC. Even if that kiss turns out to be a rejection, at least it was talked about before-hand.
Hi there! Thank you for your advice!
Your not the only one but I have a reason to be nervous. My mom is strict like suuuper strict and shes insane! Like she's a controle freak and manipulates people. She also tells lies to people about her own kids! She tries to controle my brother to this day! And he doesn't even live with her anymore! He's also 25! But my reason is basically doing what I'm doing now. TALKING TO PEOPLE ONLINE IS DEEMED UNACCEPTABLE IN MY MOMS HOUSE HOLD! Searching anything up is constantly being checked in my Google history.. AND MY MUSIC IS CONSTANTLY BEING SEARCHED UP TO SEE IF SHE APPROVES OR NOT AND IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE IT SHE YELLS AT ME! So ya I live with my dad now. Unless you hafto worry about that chill! Your fine!
