monxmiracle
Kris
So around less than a month ago I joined an RP group. And I broke a few rules and got kicked, which didn't well. Fast forward to present and I join a new group, and behold the admin of that group that kicked me is in that group too. And she goes out of her way to warn the admin of the new group I joined about me and tell them that I got kicked from their group for breaking rules. This in my opinion is kinda a bit much, as I feel like they are seeing as some sort of problem for breaking rules, but the thing is many other roleplayers also break rules all the time. So the fact that this person can't forget and figure me for what happened in their group is bothersome. And I'll let it be out there that no this was not on here but on Twitter, and second I don't usually break rules however as others expressed in the group I got kicked from they showed favoritism and were very clique like.
And so anyways, I was wondering if people had any similar experiences in roleplay with people who hold grudges. I for one usually try to live with the motto forgive and forget. And do try to learn from my mistakes, but it seems some people make a big deal out of things. Sure I broke a lot of their rules, but does that make me a bad person? No? It just means that I screwed up and couldn't follow their rules. But that does mean that you should be warning people about me? I just don't understand it really.
And so anyways, I was wondering if people had any similar experiences in roleplay with people who hold grudges. I for one usually try to live with the motto forgive and forget. And do try to learn from my mistakes, but it seems some people make a big deal out of things. Sure I broke a lot of their rules, but does that make me a bad person? No? It just means that I screwed up and couldn't follow their rules. But that does mean that you should be warning people about me? I just don't understand it really.