Jewel
spirited
Hey RPNation,
A couple friends and I were talking about this, and I wanted to gauge how the rest of the site felt about this. Does it feel passive-aggressive to you when a person gives the "like" () reaction to your post? As opposed to "love" ()?
Maybe it reveals some deep, deep social insecurity in my subconscious, but when anyone (especially my roleplay partners) reacts to my post with the stupid little cookie reaction I feel that they are trying to send me hostile subliminal messages. It feels like, "I liked your post. But it was just okay" or even, "I didn't like this but I feel obligated to leave a reaction". This also occurs commonly to groups. And it's even more unnerving because in a group, you really don't usually know all the people that well.
The heart reaction leaves no room for uncertainty-- if someone "love"s your post, it always means "I liked this!". But the cookie... the cookie could suggest that the person only sort-of liked what you had to say, OR that they actually hate you and wants you to suffer. NOT that anyone on RPN has EVER been malicious to another person. But still... that cookie. Haunting.
I think I'd actually prefer that a person didn't leave a reaction at all as opposed to leaving a "like" on my post. I never "" anybody's posts, ever, because I don't want other people to think that I'm being passive-aggressive with them. Does anyone else feel this way? Does anyone NOT feel this way?
A couple friends and I were talking about this, and I wanted to gauge how the rest of the site felt about this. Does it feel passive-aggressive to you when a person gives the "like" () reaction to your post? As opposed to "love" ()?
Maybe it reveals some deep, deep social insecurity in my subconscious, but when anyone (especially my roleplay partners) reacts to my post with the stupid little cookie reaction I feel that they are trying to send me hostile subliminal messages. It feels like, "I liked your post. But it was just okay" or even, "I didn't like this but I feel obligated to leave a reaction". This also occurs commonly to groups. And it's even more unnerving because in a group, you really don't usually know all the people that well.
The heart reaction leaves no room for uncertainty-- if someone "love"s your post, it always means "I liked this!". But the cookie... the cookie could suggest that the person only sort-of liked what you had to say, OR that they actually hate you and wants you to suffer. NOT that anyone on RPN has EVER been malicious to another person. But still... that cookie. Haunting.
I think I'd actually prefer that a person didn't leave a reaction at all as opposed to leaving a "like" on my post. I never "" anybody's posts, ever, because I don't want other people to think that I'm being passive-aggressive with them. Does anyone else feel this way? Does anyone NOT feel this way?