I3ookI7ragon
New Member
Alright, this is not a "Please RP with me" cry out. This is a I'm chicken and don't know how to get over it.
I am looking for advice on how to not be nervous when I actually get the people wanting to RP with me.
I am new to it in general, but I enjoy writing and by the attention on the very little of a fan-fiction I started but never finished, others seem to like something that I am doing. So, I have a little boost. But when it comes to RP or someone seeing my writing. I hole up. Hard. Really hard. Like, I had and still have quite a few wanting/willing to RP with me, but when they question plans of when or it gets close to the time, I lose it and bail for like 2 months or more. I thought it would be easier with people from another site that I have known for years, though I'm really just kinda of there and never actually build a 'friendship' with them. But they seem to think I am okay and have wanted to RP with me. I still freak. Like, someone asked me just today, and I have known them for a few years and then I get super flustered and ignore them. Idle chit chatty kind of RP is easy, but I'm looking for something more, now and don't know what to do.
So yeah, I have people wanting to RP with me, but then I freak, over thinking everything.
What if I am a burden?
What if they know less than me?
What if they don't like my writing or my characters?
This new person.. o-m-g.. Stranger danger man.. should I talk to this person? (not in an you're odd, just in a way I was very sheltered and O-M-G ITS ANOTHER PERSON... Is it trying to communicate with me?) The heck do I say back? .-.
I don't really know much of my own role play style and well I kinda mean nothing.. I know nothing of my RP style. I can write my own little stuff, I can write a Bio if I have anything to go on, I can do "solo RPs", no one is actually about on this dead wasteland of a site, so i solo my actions in one of the random chats. And then the cycle begins. People message me to RP and I worry, excessively.
Yeah let me tell ya, I have heard "Just jump into it", "Just get over it" "Just.." "Just" "Just"
Yeah, I get it. Just do it.
I don't know if that actually works for people but it certainly doesn't for me. I have heard it so many times, Id be rich with dimes. i have read so many guides on "How" to RP, that is not what I need in case the before was not clear.
I really just don't even know where my problem is, it's just there, and though I wouldn't wish this feeling on anyone.. I hope there are those out there who do know the feeling and have any sort of advice on getting over it.
I get so excited seeing that people want to RP with me, but.. then I get scared. And I am not afraid to admit it.
Please and thank you for any opinion one may give!
(p.s. I hope this isn't considered life advice? if it is, is there anywhere in particular this post should go.)
I am looking for advice on how to not be nervous when I actually get the people wanting to RP with me.
I am new to it in general, but I enjoy writing and by the attention on the very little of a fan-fiction I started but never finished, others seem to like something that I am doing. So, I have a little boost. But when it comes to RP or someone seeing my writing. I hole up. Hard. Really hard. Like, I had and still have quite a few wanting/willing to RP with me, but when they question plans of when or it gets close to the time, I lose it and bail for like 2 months or more. I thought it would be easier with people from another site that I have known for years, though I'm really just kinda of there and never actually build a 'friendship' with them. But they seem to think I am okay and have wanted to RP with me. I still freak. Like, someone asked me just today, and I have known them for a few years and then I get super flustered and ignore them. Idle chit chatty kind of RP is easy, but I'm looking for something more, now and don't know what to do.
So yeah, I have people wanting to RP with me, but then I freak, over thinking everything.
What if I am a burden?
What if they know less than me?
What if they don't like my writing or my characters?
This new person.. o-m-g.. Stranger danger man.. should I talk to this person? (not in an you're odd, just in a way I was very sheltered and O-M-G ITS ANOTHER PERSON... Is it trying to communicate with me?) The heck do I say back? .-.
I don't really know much of my own role play style and well I kinda mean nothing.. I know nothing of my RP style. I can write my own little stuff, I can write a Bio if I have anything to go on, I can do "solo RPs", no one is actually about on this dead wasteland of a site, so i solo my actions in one of the random chats. And then the cycle begins. People message me to RP and I worry, excessively.
Yeah let me tell ya, I have heard "Just jump into it", "Just get over it" "Just.." "Just" "Just"
Yeah, I get it. Just do it.
I don't know if that actually works for people but it certainly doesn't for me. I have heard it so many times, Id be rich with dimes. i have read so many guides on "How" to RP, that is not what I need in case the before was not clear.
I really just don't even know where my problem is, it's just there, and though I wouldn't wish this feeling on anyone.. I hope there are those out there who do know the feeling and have any sort of advice on getting over it.
I get so excited seeing that people want to RP with me, but.. then I get scared. And I am not afraid to admit it.
Please and thank you for any opinion one may give!
(p.s. I hope this isn't considered life advice? if it is, is there anywhere in particular this post should go.)